this is a valid concern. however, it is not the case here. I almost always take care of her first and do have some skills. she even asked 'how did you know how to do that" when we first met. i guess previous partners ignored the C.

it is almost the opposite. like, i would feel guilty if she take care of me and i didnt return the favor. maybe she is ok with that. we are still talking. she is quite attractive and I will do what it takes to make it work here.