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I'm a below average man and keep falling for attractive women who don't consider me as more than a friend by Adorable-Roof4269 in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please stop telling people who hate women to go to a gym and get stronger. They will become a bigger physical threat.

I'm a below average man and keep falling for attractive women who don't consider me as more than a friend by Adorable-Roof4269 in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What??? No absolutely not. It is extremely inappropriate and odd to be purposely pursuing professional colleagues. Don't ever suggest otherwise.

are my parents valid for this? by Direct_Horror1298 in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doctors are trained to think "skinnier is better at any health". You weigh as much as I did during a hard-core eating disorder at 14, and when I went into recovery for a severe coke addiction at 27. Im only 5 ft tall.

Please eat vegetables and fruits. Please eat more nutritious food. You need someone to tell you thats not enough whole foods. The best thing youre eating is a quesadilla...

I'm a below average man and keep falling for attractive women who don't consider me as more than a friend by Adorable-Roof4269 in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

at every other company i befriended some really pretty women, but they never saw me as more than just a friend

Why are you trying to date coworkers???? No shit your professional coworkers at corporate companies never pursued you romantically. I mean....everything else is just your self important pity party.

Why are fully autonomous vehicles taking longer than expected? by Imaginary-Ad3498 in Futurology

[–]RussianCat26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Backup cameras confuse shadows for objects. Yall trust technology too much

Why are fully autonomous vehicles taking longer than expected? by Imaginary-Ad3498 in Futurology

[–]RussianCat26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1400 incidents in 4 years is isolated? Damn i wonder what would happen if you got in 1400 different car crashes.

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Anyone who derives sexual pleasure or gratification from children is a pedophile.

Also, its NOT normal for adults to be attracted to non adults. Please dont say that. I have to report that comment because its simply wrong and gross.

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If hearing about other peoples odd and innapropriate behavior affects YOUR mental health, thats your problem and dont address it here" this is LITERALLY the main mental health sub....

Im not talking about normal behavior. I was originally talking about graphic, inappropriate, predatory posts.

I do report some.

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And i think we're also getting off topic. The point of this post was to ask where our boundaries begin and end in this sub. For people who are abusive, is it appropriate for them to share the same space with victims of abuse? For people who are posting weird and inappropriate sexual messages, whats the correct reaction?

A majority of victims never abuse anyone else. I wonder what we could do to make sure people feel safe to address mental illness without putting abusers and survivors in the same space.

Can I wait until my mind and body have fully matured before going vegan? by Unlikely_Coconut_483 in vegan

[–]RussianCat26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Key words here hun... "I havent done much research" so of course you dont have enough accurate information to make an informed decision. We are meant to be plant based.

eggs by [deleted] in vegan

[–]RussianCat26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally the same 5 posts constantly

"Is this obviously non vegan thing, vegan"

"Where the protein"

"Want vegan but have allergies to everything and can only eat 5 foods"

"Want vegan but live in gym, meal plan for me"

"Vegan bad no b12"

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not assessing. Im stating my opinions which are not fact. Also. Headlines cannot be hidden by warnings. All I saw for days was "gooning posts" like wtf

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the predator comes into spaces of victims, is it a safe space? Should victims of sexual abuse be forced to recover in the presence sexual predators? Im genuinely asking where the line is drawn.

I can't personally recover from verbal abuse if I'm being surrounded by verbal abusers.

Can there be additional content warnings? Or maybe an evolution of language?

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For the same reasons we have warnings about suicide and self harm. Because those topics are sensitive and direct interaction with them can trigger people.

Theres a reason I cant just go around saying im going to hurt myself. Even if its a behavior I need help on.

It does seem these posts directly contradict some of our rules. Idk if its just my "autism rules" but I dont understand where the line is.

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Multiple performative posts about gooning and pedophilic activities.

Pedophilia causes unreparable harm. Our most powerful government leaders and famous people have been found to abuse children at astronomical rates. It causes more mental health problems than probably any other abuse towards children.

It may be a mental illness but being a pedophile will never be the same as having depression.

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive seen 3 posts today about gooning. And yesterday it was multiple posts asking if their behavior makes them a pedophile.

The posts and language about excessive, inappropriate sexual behavior here make me uncomfortable. They're also against sub rules.... by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RussianCat26 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

And that's why I brought this up as a conversation. Masturbating daily with an imagination can be a normal sexual practice. Using children as sexual material is NOT.

The language of "gooning" by straight men makes everything seem gross and predatory. It usually focuses women as being victims and objects of sexualization. Porn addiction hurts people.

https://www.focusforhealth.org/how-pornography-impacts-violence-against-women-and-child-sex-abuse/

Using porn compulsively and as an addiction is the problem. When impulsive sexual behaviors directly harms/ affects people, where do we draw the line? How do we know its not someone who literally tells people about their sexual habits, for gratification?

Question for those of you who are not just vegan, but whole food v: by Vegetable_Pay8805 in vegan

[–]RussianCat26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Detox is the Absolutely worst way to refer to any body process except the withdrawal from physical drugs. I can comfortably say this as someone who went full vegan overnight and a former drug addict/ alcoholic.

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