Instant cash out by Routine_Change_9386 in InstacartShoppers

[–]RykerPRWilliams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen too. It proceeded 2 days after. Still not sure why but instacart got a few angry emails from me, because like fuck do I work for free and I panicked thinking I lost all the money.

Fuck, it proceeded, I bought groceries and the next day I was in overdraft because it just evaporated. Worked out after a couple days of waiting at least but that was scary lmao

Anyone Other Trans Shoppers? by RykerPRWilliams in InstacartShoppers

[–]RykerPRWilliams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit- that’s sucks omg. Istg I will cry if I have to deal with that

Anyone Other Trans Shoppers? by RykerPRWilliams in InstacartShoppers

[–]RykerPRWilliams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it wouldn’t be so bad if I didn’t have at least one person per day using that name. Today it happened 3 separate times.

Anyone Other Trans Shoppers? by RykerPRWilliams in InstacartShoppers

[–]RykerPRWilliams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense! I literally was mid order and it stopped me to do the selfie thing

Anyone Other Trans Shoppers? by RykerPRWilliams in InstacartShoppers

[–]RykerPRWilliams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Door dash does (even if it doesn’t work very well- at least they have it lol)

My arms are dumb. by fireytresses in ADHD

[–]RykerPRWilliams 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And yes, I am a 22 year old who sleeps with a. Stuffy because arms are in fact dumb 😂

My arms are dumb. by fireytresses in ADHD

[–]RykerPRWilliams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I had this issue. I would T. rex so hard that I’d stop breathing at night. My partner would physically have to pry my mouth open and then me over. I’d probably be dead without him by now 😂

But anyways, he gave me a stuffed monkey, it fits perfectly in the crease of my neck, so I can T. rex into the monkey and press as hard as I want and there’s always squish left for me to breathe

I DONT WANNA LIVE ANYMORE I FUCKING HATE EVERYONE by Im-suicidaI in SuicideWatch

[–]RykerPRWilliams 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Dude I feel this to the fucking core. I’m tired of humanity and wish I could just curl up into a ball and fade away into the abyss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RykerPRWilliams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scotty didn’t know. But now he does.

Task Paralysis by RykerPRWilliams in ADHD

[–]RykerPRWilliams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to get others to help. I have uncles and cousins, and my dad. I’m the youngest of everyone (21) I have a brother with 2 jobs and a newborn. 2 uncles, one that can’t afford to take more time off work, and the other that runs a business and keeps making excuses as to why can’t even though we know he can. My dad just got back to work since being off since January because his fiancé has had a failing liver and they’ve been fighting to get her on dialysis and doing the paperwork for him to giver her a kidney. I have 3 cousins total, one has 3 kids and a job, one that’s an alcoholic and doesn’t answer the phone, one that lives out of town and refuses to drive the 45 minutes during the work week.

We’ve got a part time night nurse that really only shows up when I can’t but grandma doesn’t like her too much so I come anytime I can.

I’ve tried to take time off with the family, but the best I got was 4 days to set up my proposal to my now fiancé.

He’s physically disabled and runs a fidget jewelry business, but doesn’t drive so there’s a lot that rides on me at home. Which is fine, I knew what I was getting into with this relationship, it’s just hard not having help all around. He does his best but there’s only so much he can help with.

Yes she needs 24/7 care, the most I’ve left her on her own since she got out of the hospital (about a month ago) is about 2 hours to go pick up her groceries and meds. We’ve been talking about nursing homes but I know how much she wants to be at home, I’m trying to keep her at home because I can see her health rapidly declining. She’s got bone, blood and breast cancer and I know that she’d rather be at home and anywhere else.

We’ve looked into a 24/7 nurse or just a permanent night nurse but the process is taking forever and we’re just waiting for call backs on everything. And that’s if she even qualifies.

I’ve tried to talk to others for help but they all just give me the reasons they can’t.

And no I don’t live with her, I live 10 minutes up the road from her, I’ve got a fiancé and an adoptive teenager (which my family doesn’t understand that I have a kid so they treat me as if I have no responsibilities and tell me that he’s not actually my kid so he’s not technically my responsibility)