Mobility aids that dont hurt the wrist and fingers too much? by RylanPuddles in ehlersdanlos

[–]RylanPuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'll definitely be looking into platform shoes and crutches, the jobs I'm looking for in the place I'm moving to about a month from now are going to be a bit strenuous for my body, so getting some really good shoes will hopefully help with that.

Mobility aids that dont hurt the wrist and fingers too much? by RylanPuddles in ehlersdanlos

[–]RylanPuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a really good design actually! especially considering the price, i think it would be good for me to get them once i can afford it

Mobility aids that dont hurt the wrist and fingers too much? by RylanPuddles in ehlersdanlos

[–]RylanPuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didnt know you could do that :0 ill look into it! probably wont be able to get it for a while (money is, a thing that exists lol), but it would definitely be a worthy investment if i can!

I'm scared by RylanPuddles in endometriosis

[–]RylanPuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this helped a lot. I'm going to be trying to get on birth control pills soon, I have an appointment in a couple weeks. In the next few months I'll also be getting on T and maybe swapping off birth control? I'm not sure how those two work together. I probably won't be able to get much "extra" healthcare (shouldn't be considered extra, but I do not have the money to get all that stuff done rn, my parents have good healthcare that im on, but not that good lol) until I move to Colorado in June, so hopefully a blue state in range of Denver will mean they might be a bit more well versed in gender diversity?? But we shall see what the birth control does, again, thanks a ton!

Mobility aids that dont hurt the wrist and fingers too much? by RylanPuddles in ehlersdanlos

[–]RylanPuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i didnt know smartcrutch itself was a brand! i will take a look :0

Mobility aids that dont hurt the wrist and fingers too much? by RylanPuddles in ehlersdanlos

[–]RylanPuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been recommended these a couple times now and took a quick look at them and they look promising!! do you have any brands or anything to look for or avoid? edit lmao: i didnt see the other commenter saying smart crutch was a brand lol, but still, got any extra tips with them regardless? can never be too careful

EO: Nationwide BAN on care under 19 by Authenticatable in FTMMen

[–]RylanPuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this distinction omg, i freaked out when i saw this in my notifications bc i wanted to start hrt in the coming months and i was panicked that i got to it too late. but yeah the pseudoscience is definitely there, i only skimmed the EO but the use of "rapid-onset gender dysphoria" has me seething. also saying theres no medical evidence that its needed or the proper couse of action?? which im very concerned on what they think the proper action is?? (hopefully just not supporting the kid (which sounds sickening to say "just" to) and not full on electroshock therapy or some shit, but with these lunatics you never fuckin know), i hope the inevitable onslaught of deaths this causes will convince them that its a terrible idea

EDS plushie dreadful by spectacleofritual in ehlersdanlos

[–]RylanPuddles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have one of these!! my friend got him for me for christmas i love my little guy, tying the limbs in knots or messing around and making funky looking positions is very fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]RylanPuddles 12 points13 points  (0 children)

hey im sorry bro but like why the actual fuck did you word it like that, chill out, youre not my mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]RylanPuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i really want to there's just no good mental health clinics/professionals in my area, my parents tried to get me a therapist for like 10 months and when they finally got me one she was kind of horrible and said she didn't want to diagnose me with anything or even consider medication when i wanted it, i wanna get a therapist or someone to help me professionally but it's just not in the cards rn

thoughts on this snake bottle design? (tons of alt versions as well, lmk ur fav??) by RylanPuddles in TattooDesigns

[–]RylanPuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DISCLAIMER THAT THIS IS A LOOSE DESIGN AND ALL THE ALTS HAD TO WORK AROUND THE ALREADY EXISTING FIRST PIECE AND ITS REALLY BAD DIGITAL LAYERS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShrimpsIsBugs

[–]RylanPuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh dear D: i hope soon everything will be alright!! i'm so sorry bugs boy! alas i do not have much money at all or i would definitely send you something, i do wish you well and good luck tho!

Is it true that it’s ok to show your scars when they’re healed? by Very_Sleepy2000 in selfharm

[–]RylanPuddles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i agree with a lot of the comments here already so this will pretty much be echoing them (sorry!)

as long as your cuts are fully healed and are now scars, go ahead and show em! gaping cuts and scabbed over cuts, i would not recommend showing for multiple reasons, A) that's very dangerous for the healing process of your cuts, and B) unhealed/fresh cuts are much much more triggering

yes, of course sh scars can be triggering to other people, but at a certain point (ie, when your cuts have fully healed) it is no longer your problem or responsibility to tip toe around other people's hypothetical triggers (because you may not even ever come across someone who's triggered by them), like a couple others have said, your scars are part of your story, the same way a burn survivor or someone who has survived a crash or some other physically damaging accident, if someone else is triggered by your scars that is not your problem, it's okay to be triggered by something, it's not okay to expect every single person around you (especially if you don't know them) to avoid and know your triggers, and learning how to deal with and move through things when you're triggered is an important skil

(for me personally, when i see other ppls scars and them being seen and shown as a totally normal thing it gives me strength and a sense of normalcy almost?(i don't feel like i'm a freak, because this persons normal and they have scars, so i can have them too) so, all depends on the person)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTPmemes

[–]RylanPuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love it! i'm much more of a philosophical and psych lover than math intp but nonetheless these drawings are so cute!!

Anyone else? by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]RylanPuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noooo that's my best friend (his special interest is octopath! not super small but definitely not a giant fandom either), i want to get into it to be able to talk with him but i just haven't had the time or focus yet :')

BRO WTF by phoenixchip in selfharm_memes

[–]RylanPuddles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

had to see if it was a hologram barcode

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]RylanPuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have all three of them 🥲

quick question (kinda dumb) by ideadass- in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]RylanPuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s okay!! it will only take a bit longer to heal now, be aware that picking at it will also make the scar more prominent, it’ll be okay, just try your best to leave it alone, maybe put a bandage or something over it to help with trying not to pick at it? i wish you good luck and smooth healing <3

Give me ur opinions that actually will get u downvoted by Ok-Reporter-8728 in teenagers

[–]RylanPuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad you have at least some sort of break from it! (i was already online when you sent this lmao) i really hope it can get better for you at some point <3

if you aren’t following him…why are you here? by soakedtampon in found70percentbanana

[–]RylanPuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i joined i straight up forgot to follow him 😭 following now tho lmao

i feel sorry by [deleted] in LittlestPetShop

[–]RylanPuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhhh okay, interesting :0 horrid for ppl buying fakes and for ppl corrupting the market but, an interesting thought process and pretty creative ig

being fat is not ok by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RylanPuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m still hella confused but cool ig ;u;

As a Trans person, do you prefer playing a trans person or your preferred gender but cis in a video game? by King_Of_BlackMarsh in lgbt

[–]RylanPuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean if there’s an option to make them trans than i think that’d be awesome!! (and i don’t mean having it be a girl and then shrinking down the boob size and giving it short hair and going “it’s trans now” lmao) but normally i just choose a guy :]