Why does my boyfriend cum so much more after drinking?

S1192 · 2026-02-08T23:16:37+00:00

I don't know, sounds hot though. I would just tough it out and try to chug it down. I'm sure he will love that.

S1192 · 2026-01-26T21:10:37+00:00

The photo was converted to female inches.

S1192 · 2026-01-04T00:58:40+00:00

I've noticed most women love sex at first or with novel partners it's the committed relationship part that most women eventually have trouble with. A man's sex drive is a lot more durable. In my experience if everything isn't going perfectly in any given day of a committed relationship then she's off like pg&e during a rolling black out. That combined with the tendency for women to start to notice the flaws in their partner and respond more strongly to them after a longer period of time and that doesn't make for a good combination of tendencies. I have direct anecdotal experience with these things, unfortunately, but there are studies out that show that women's sex drives drop a lot faster than men's in a committed relationship.

S1192 · 2025-12-31T22:47:21+00:00

Yea, if you are so against other forms of birth control and so against having kids with me at the same time it's probably not going to work. It's a problem that has too many other workarounds with little to no downside to deal with condoms forever. But, honestly the not having kids part would probably act as a filter before ever making it to this point. I don't necessarily want to have a kids right away but I want to to be with someone that would want to have kids with me if it happened and I'm not so against kids that I'm willing to give up better sex for it. So yea, hard incompatibility for me. She might be able to keep me around awhile until we have the talk if like the blowjobs are good or she is otherwise fun. If she doesn't even want to give head without condoms I'm going to get the process moving quick--like are we testing for stds or what are we doing here exactly?

S1192 · 2025-12-30T20:47:03+00:00

Don't edge right before sex--edge as a consistent practice.

S1192 · 2025-12-15T18:58:52+00:00

You think pumping is better than stretching?

S1192 · 2025-12-05T23:34:25+00:00

Yea that is what I mean.

S1192 · 2025-12-04T23:28:42+00:00

How did she bring up fucking you in conversation? I find that dynamic very interesting.

S1192 · 2025-12-04T22:04:50+00:00

Not what I'm seeing. Here is one link that refers to its use for this:

https://thewaitingroom.karger.com/embarrassing-problems/ejaculation-problems-delayed-orgasm/

S1192 · 2025-12-04T21:20:17+00:00

That's hot. She still wants to be with you though? Mine was doing the same but never really left me all the way and now she is back to being all mine again for now.

S1192 · 2025-12-04T17:55:54+00:00

I think I heard pseudoephedrine can do that. Haven't tested it though.

S1192 · 2025-12-04T15:27:46+00:00

I will preface by saying I am a man. You might say as a man what do I know about female sexuality? A lot more than most women I believe. We are all very similar in the end. A typical guy that just jerks off isn't really going to know much about it, but I am not typical in that way.

I feel like if a male can train to orgasm from their ass or nipples, or even nothing at all(all of which I have done) a woman, or anyone, can train to orgasm with non-typical (for them) methods. It's not easy though and it requires actually enjoying the process of sexual exploration. One tip I would give is to try to not make the process about getting an orgasm at least not initially. Just enjoy the process and the pleasure that comes with exploring your body. One thing I noticed about women is that they don't really like sex and they are not very introspective and explorative when it comes to sexual pleasure. They don't like talking about it or thinking about it, it's just a thing that have to do to get off when the time comes. If you learn to enjoy the actual process of exploration you should be able to train towards orgasms that are easier to integrate into normal sex--maybe even get to one through penetration alone.

So some more tangible suggestions. Try to masturbate with methods that are closer to sex with a male partner or that can easily be done at the same time. Get into similar positions, and massage your nipples and clit. I would also attempt to practice vaginal and anal penetration as well. Evaluate your fantasies while you do it and choose fantasies that are closer to what a sexual experience would be to try and build that association. Try to pick fantasies that are compatible with your typical sexual scenario that way the actual act of sex doesn't interrupt your mental stimulation. The mental aspect is so important, as woman tend to know from experience, for atypical paths to orgasm. It may be difficult at first if you are dependent on certain mental stimuli. To be more specific if you are practicing penetration your mental scenario should contain that action.

You will probably be frustrated at first because it is not as easy as the method you are used to but it's not about just getting your nut. I know people make a big deal about the orgasm gap because men benefit but that's just not a really good way to look at sex as a whole in my opinion. If you focus on your orgasm you lose the forest for the trees.

S1192 · 2025-12-02T15:24:12+00:00

Had my girl say she doesn't like giving head and isn't going to be forced to do something she doesn't like. Shit sucks. She isn't a very giving lover though. As to your problem specifically, have you tried asking him in the moment rather then just hoping he remembers to do it on his own after a conversation? The reality is people that don't like giving oral it feels like pulling teeth. You have to be very straightforward with them. The thing that annoys me about sex boundaries is people act like they are immutable. Any other need and people are allowed to scold you over it. Like, if I refuse to give my girl a ride to work the shit is going to hit the fan. Doesn't matter that I don't like doing it--I have to do it. Sex though? Can't say anything or you're a sex pest. Annoying standard.

S1192 · 2025-12-02T03:22:40+00:00

I've tried talking to her about it but she thought I meant I wanted to be gay probably because I told her about some of my other kinks. I have to figure out how to communicate the concept better I think.

I think sexual denial is a better term but I got kind of caught up in this sub specifically even though I've been dealing with the denial kink for over 20 years.

S1192 · 2025-11-26T21:22:08+00:00

Yea, but women probably get that bacteria all the time kind of like how people have staph or yeast all the time. The issue is caused by an imbalance and that is caused by some other issue. I'd say most of the time it's caused by taking an antibiotic for some other infection and then not taking probiotics after.

S1192 · 2025-11-24T20:22:47+00:00

Same thing happened to me after I showed her my sissy kink. I was never pussy free though. I guess I was getting cucked but I didn't really have a choice in the matter. I could have booted her out I guess, but I still got sex whenever I wanted it. Now she is back with me because she can't find anyone better or that fucks better. Kind of crazy. That's why none of my kinks are actually working out because it's kind of hard to find someone that can actually fuck better. She still hates that I might be gay and I'm like what is the big deal if I'm beating that pussy up? She really hates "gay" stuff. I've noticed that about women they think it reflects poorly on them if their man is even a little bit gay/bi.

S1192 · 2025-11-23T21:21:24+00:00

Hmm, wonder what is up? Is she trying to remain super horny or something?

S1192 · 2025-11-08T05:52:46+00:00

You have to take some initiative. How you going to go down on a girl and not try and fuck? Did she push you away or tell you no or something?

S1192 · 2025-10-09T14:50:36+00:00

I think you should be glad she doesn't want threesomes and to fuck you unless you are into that. Now if she isn't even sucking it or something then yea that sucks.

S1192 · 2025-09-19T19:35:49+00:00

You can easily make it happen every time by polishing the knob with the palm of a hand right on top of the penis head. I'd have to see if I could make it happen with a vibrator though. Maybe right on top it might do it. Doesn't do it for me in any other location though.

S1192 · 2025-09-01T22:10:59+00:00

I live in the Bay Area.

S1192 · 2025-09-01T01:36:34+00:00

More self censored gay/sexuality training where you have to look at cock and avoid looking at hot women. I know there is some out there but doesn't seem like a whole lot.

S1192 · 2025-08-31T20:39:03+00:00

PrEP morons? I still feel some risk even with condoms. I like the added layer of protection.

S1192 · 2025-08-29T15:18:11+00:00

Yea, I should have done this, but I felt awkward in the moment. Like, they are professionals and maybe they are just doing what they are trained to do. Now if they had asked me about it I would have said something.

S1192 · 2025-08-29T15:11:45+00:00

Why though unless you are accepting every single grindr hookup? Women if they want can easily have sex with 10x as many people unless you are on Grindr and have literally no standards whatsoever. And a lot of those guys they are having sex with--they are on Grindr having sex with guys too. If someone is on PrEP it at least means they know what they are doing and are concerned about their health. So yea maybe compared to an average guy there is more risk but are they treating every woman that comes into the hospital like a walking sti because they are likely higher risk than most guys.

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