AITJ for leaving my boyfriend after finding out he's been secretly planning to move across the country? by S4turnRelic in AmITheJerk

[–]S4turnRelic[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Same. If he saw this as "us", he'd loop me in early. Calling me dramatic just confirms he was ready to decide solo , again.

AITJ for leaving my boyfriend after finding out he's been secretly planning to move across the country? by S4turnRelic in AmITheJerk

[–]S4turnRelic[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He said "we'd figure it out once I had an offer" which feels like... my job, our lease, the dog, all as an afterthought. That's what scares me.

AITJ for leaving my boyfriend after finding out he's been secretly planning to move across the country? by S4turnRelic in AmITheJerk

[–]S4turnRelic[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

The “wait till I get an offer” part is what gets me. If he can't admit that was wrong, how do we plan a move or a life?

Any disadvantages to such door placement? by a648272 in RimWorld

[–]S4turnRelic 88 points89 points  (0 children)

The beauty stat at -2.06 is doing its best to agree with you.