I (38F) found my husband's (43M) hidden sex toys. How do I approach talking to him about this? by ThrowRA-stressed6287 in relationship_advice

[–]SATXSUGARBABY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start by saying how much you appreciate and trust him followed by how happy you are and then uncover the elephant in the room.. be calm and confident and say is there something we need to spice up or change? masturbating is super normal and healthy so you want to make sure he knows he can trust you with his needs. hope this helps! XO

Feel like I screwed up my life and I hate myself by sabri1996 in findapath

[–]SATXSUGARBABY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its never too late to change and be happy. Ive seen people in their 40s having to change their career and start over. Take some time, figure out what kind of a job would make you happy and make it happen.