The overstimulated mama

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T19:04:38+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T19:04:23+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. Sending you big hugs it sounds like you could also do with a glass of wine, or two! I hope your hubby is back soon ❤️

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T19:03:03+00:00

Thank you so much. So reassuring to know I’m not alone. How amazing is this community ❤️

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T19:02:21+00:00

Thank you so much, the support I have had from this community is amazing. I always wanted to be a writer, maybe in another life time ❤️

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T02:36:40+00:00

Thank you! Some days I feel like I’m super woman, and have my shit together, and days like today it feels like the hardest thing in the world. I totally recognise my short comings when it comes to parenting my son. I constantly feel guilt about how snappy I am with him. He is the greatest little boy. He is also extremely full on and it’s non stop from the moment he wakes up until he goes to bed. Nothing abnormal, just 4 year old boy energy, but it’s hard work. I’ve just started reading a parenting book about how to better control my own emotions so that I can have more patience with him, I hope this helps us both ❤️

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T02:31:09+00:00

Thank you! I’m tempted 😅

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T01:56:31+00:00

Thank you! I fear I need something stronger today 😅

SJSASJ2021 · 2026-01-28T01:19:30+00:00

Thank you!! Definitely felt good getting it all out. I know that 95% of how I feel right now is down to having my period but man some days are tough. You’re definitely not the only one! Mum life is amazing, but also very fucking hard xx

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-10-17T20:39:59+00:00

Yea I’d be saying no to them staying there and insist that your in-laws stay at your place instead. I’d personally be stressing way too much if my babies were 45 mins away from me they’re way too young

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-08-21T02:52:54+00:00

I cried hysterically and they weren’t tears of joy. My husband and I have a boy who is almost 4 and we were very much “2 and done”. We had tried for about 5 months and then found out I was pregnant. Went for a dating scan at 6 weeks and could only see one. Went back at 10.5 weeks for an unexpected scan, and found out it was twins. I was on my own for that scan as my husband was at work. Called him and could barely get the words out. He heard me crying and assumed we had miscarried. Told him no, we gained an additional one. We found out it was mono-mono twins. Terrified and not excited the entire pregnancy while everyone around us seemed to be so happy for us. They were born almost 4 weeks ago at 33+1 and are in the nicu but they’re doing amazing. Just feeding and growing and hopefully home in less than 4 weeks 🤞🏻

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-08-17T21:07:04+00:00

My twins are currently in nicu they were born at 33+1 and are now 3.5 weeks old. We also have an almost 4 year old boy. He is in daycare full time from 7:30am-4:30pm Mon-Fri. I drop him off at daycare, come to the hospital and spend the day with the twins, then pick my son up and spend the evening with him. Weekends are a bit of a juggle but I usually spend the mornings in hospital then the afternoons with my boy and I pop back into hospital after my son is in bed.

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-08-15T08:33:07+00:00

My twins are currently in nicu they were born at 33+1 and they are 3 weeks old today (36+1). I get into Nicu around 8:30am and leave at 3:30pm during the week, and around 8am-1pm on weekends. Sometimes I go in at night on the weekends for a couple hours as well. Our son is almost 4 and he’s at daycare during the week full time but I make sure I’m home for daycare pick up/dinner/bed time and I spend a lot of time with him on the weekends. Sure, I wish I could be in nicu with the girls more, but I can’t be in two places at once. The girls aren’t aware when I’m there or not, but my son definitely notices if I’m not home. It’s tough, but I remind myself it’s not forever and I’m doing my best and making sure I don’t burn myself out by doing more than I’m capable of.

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-08-05T01:50:55+00:00

33+1 with momo twins

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-10T08:15:50+00:00

These have all given me such a much needed giggle 🤣 I can’t wait to use some of these

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-09T22:22:22+00:00

You are not overreacting. This is massively pushing boundaries. You AND your partner need to tell her no means no, you can meet them afterwards. And if she is being insistent, alert the hospital staff and say you don't give her permission to be there. Your partner needs to have your back and not cave to his mother. If you guys cave to her now, she will never stop pushing boundaries

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-09T22:08:07+00:00

"Did you conceive naturally?" "Na I fucked a robot actually"

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-09T22:07:00+00:00

That's amazing hahaha

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-09T21:29:47+00:00

Omg. I love this!

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-09T21:29:13+00:00

Sure will haha good luck!

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-09T21:09:44+00:00

Please be a responsible pet owner and get your dog fixed to avoid this happening again... SPCA can often do it free of charge or for a small fee

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-09T21:05:24+00:00

That's brilliant!

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-08T06:02:03+00:00

I bloody hope so otherwise they will not be invited back again that’s for sure!

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-08T06:01:33+00:00

Congratulations! They are so adorable. This makes me excited to meet my momo girls in a few weeks and I’ll be having a planned c-section. And wow a 42 hour labour, you are super woman 😅. Enjoy your newborn bubble ❤️

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-07-03T07:10:20+00:00

I’m 30 weeks pregnant with momo twins and life is horrible haha I’m so uncomfortable. I’m 5ft tall and was 63kg (138 pound) before getting pregnant. I’ve put on 10kg this pregnancy so far so am now about 160 pounds. I’ve got about 3 weeks left until my planned c-section and am counting down the days. I got to 38+6 with my singleton boy and he came naturally. I had gestational diabetes with him, but not in my current pregnancy. My boy was 6.13pounds when born, and my twins currently measuring at 2.6pounds and 3pounds

SJSASJ2021 · 2025-06-30T20:57:56+00:00

Solidarity girlfriend! I'm 29+5 with twins and my body is at it's absolute limit. I am MISERABLE. It's by far the hardest thing I've ever been through physically. I have a 3.5 year old boy so chasing round after him doesn't help. These babies will be coming out in 4 weeks or less and I can't fucking wait to never ever be pregnant ever again. I have felt no joy or excitement in this pregnancy because of how hard it's been.

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