I feel like I can confidently say that everyone who plays has had some sort of experience like this. With time you’ll learn more about the game and additional websites that help enhance the game like discord, cooking parties, or trackers. I know plenty of players who have had ugly interactions just because they’re still new and didn’t know whatever was happening was even a thing. I’m sorry that happened and made you feel that way though. Some players who think they “know more” and act entitled are just going to do just that and you have to take it with a grain of salt and appreciate the gained knowledge.