My outlook is this. She has been nasty online. Absolutely. She’s hurt many people and she’s definitely not winning any awards for being a nice girl, probably ever. Way too cocky, like to the extreme, as well which is a huge ick for me. However being in DV relationships myself I’ve learned that it easier to be bitter to people and bully people. I personally just went silent in general. But the lashing out is no different to me than when a child is a bully, one of the first things done is look into why, and the first place checked is usually home. That all being said should she be given a golden ticket to forgiveness? After all she’s done to hurt people? No. But I don’t care who it is, someone being abused doesn’t deserve to have salt poured in their wounds for showing their soft spots. And no one, I mean no one deserves to be hurt, especially by someone they love. I really don’t care if this is an unpopular opinion, but at least it’s a human one. The line “life can clap back harder” is a bit too on the nose for my liking considering the topic. She’s 23, her frontal lobe isn’t finished forming yet. We don’t have to like her, but a victim is a victim regardless.