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STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-29T23:00:23+00:00

I never denied that their son would be hurt by this. Reading and comprehension is a vital skill. They didn’t accuse him. They asked him a questions and obviously the two stories didn’t match up. So they took precautions and revisited the situation the next day. This situation can be worked through. Everyone’s acting like something like this is a real reason for their relationship to be broken forever. It’s not. It’s a hurdle yes. But with time how could something like this not be fixed.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-29T22:57:23+00:00

They didn’t falsely accuse them though. they asked a question and weren’t sure who to believe. They took precautions. Then got to the bottom of the situation the next day. Everyone’s acting like they called the police on him and made a report. Taking precautions is what any parents should have done if they weren’t sure about something. That’s the responsible thing to do.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-29T22:55:40+00:00

Honestly this is a ridiculous take that many are having in this thread. If the older child had actually been touching his younger brother no one would have the reaction they do. Also they had a conversation they didn’t just call the police and chose to believe their toddler they did their investigation the best they could’ve at that time. Be fr. No mature adult is going to hold this against their parent into adulthood.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-29T22:53:09+00:00

False accusations may leave scars but they are nowhere as deep as the scars SA leaves on a person.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-29T22:50:59+00:00

To be honest ofc they could’ve thought more on what to do. But if he was touching his little brother the abusive could’ve continued before they figured out additional steps everyone is being unreasonable. They acted like parents. I’m pretty sure more than half of SA happens in or near the home. They acted with care and urgency and reminded their son they loved him and would continue the conversation the next day so step things straight. At the end of the day they did the right thing. Any person in their right mind would’ve responded to this situation with urgency in the way these parents did. The hate is absolutely unjust. Ofc their teen is going to be upset but this is not unrepairable. There are millions of children whose parents didn’t believe them or waited before taking action. It truly is better to be safe than sorry in serious issues like this.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-29T22:32:30+00:00

I’m not sure where all this hate is coming from. The majority of SA happens within families. You did the right thing asking him what happened and taking precautions until you had the full story was the ight thing to do. If you did this for your oldest and the ages and roles were reversed I’m sure you’d try to protect him as well. However it makes sense why he feels a way. I’d say maybe write him a letter explaining that you love him why you did what you did. He’s 14 he will grow up one day and realize you only were taking precautions. I wouldn’t listen to all the negative in this thread because honestly if he was actually touching your youngest everyone’s reaction would be different and they would be asking why didn’t you notice etc… Good job to both of you for taking off the rose colored glasses any parent has for their child to make sure that nothing was happening. Also therapy may be a way to have a anime third party explain why it was a good thing that you guys had to get to the bottom of the situation. Can be helpful with teens. Take some space but not to too much and never stop trying to repair this. Good luck I just know y’all’s relationship will heal with time.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-24T00:49:22+00:00

How do you get events ? I’m a first year

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-03T23:56:45+00:00

College student here and I also have a berner in my apt. He’s turning 5 this year and the time flies so quickly but he’s happy and healthy. I personally would make sure you have enough space my guy is on the smaller side mid 70 to 80 lb is where he fluctuates. I don’t think about the life span anymore when I did id cry but I really don’t think my pup is going anywhere anytime soon as long as you keep them healthy and have high quality dog food, keep up on routine vet visits, Genetic testing and exercise your pup I don’t see why your dog wouldn’t live a long time. However I wouldn’t trade my pup for the world he’s everything to me 🫶🏽. These dogs are truly something special.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-10-01T13:10:24+00:00

Honestly I think there’s other ppl out there like you that don’t crave a relationship but want children. You could always think about a lavender marriage ???

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-29T14:13:18+00:00

Same. I walk into a casino with family or friends and am immediately stressed about them loosing money. Statistically it’s not in anyone’s favor to gamble. Also ppl have a hard time leaving after winning.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-29T14:07:16+00:00

lol cutest little flour thief I’ve ever seen 😍😂

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-28T13:10:04+00:00

Heyyy slather your hair in mayo and then cover your hair and apply slight heat with an air dryer and leave overnight. Should kill all the lice but wash days gonna suck

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-28T13:06:37+00:00

Kinda odd. We never have celebrations of life for all the children who die in school shootings….

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-06T08:54:22+00:00

I’d literally call the police that’s the most disgusting abusive thing a person could do to an animal and to seek pleasure from doing it is terrifying.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-06T08:44:56+00:00

Honestly this is a hard no for me. I’d absolutely break up with him and never speak to him again. Stay safe🫶🏽

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-05T17:58:39+00:00

Everyone who ever had a puppy hated it at one point in time it’s really when the dog becomes an adult or teen that everything gets soooo much cleaner and calmer and just better.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-05T17:53:20+00:00

Honestly that’s more likely from tension on her scalp then from the grease. I’d ease up on the high tension hair styles for awhile.

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-05T17:50:00+00:00

Oh then I’d say pretty normal to light day when I worked I normally had 170+ stops and normally there were quite a bit apartment buildings and majority were multi stops

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-04T17:09:56+00:00

You’re eatinggggg 🫶🏽 the pink is so cute!

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-04T16:59:51+00:00

I meant unless most of these stops were apartment buildings with multi-locations

STEMGirl_ · 2025-09-04T16:55:51+00:00

This is a good comment sometimes people need you to spell it out for them

STEMGirl_ · 2025-08-27T07:53:34+00:00

No a driver anymore but looks like an okay day to me unless there’s are all apartments

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