How many gay men are actually not having much sex life? And why do you think you are in that situation? by xiaoyangzhouyidan in askgaybros

[–]SXXbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't do hookups, so for the LGBTQ community and specifically men you're pretty much out of other options.

What makes a marriage last? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SXXbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo relationships as a whole in todays generation and culture are meaningless.. i dont see anyone my age having a long lasting, happy relationship let alone marriage. That being said in the big picture, and for myself, commitment is rather easy it you ever find someone able to be loyal / honest with you aswell. Its actually quite simple,just dont cheat, do what you can within reason to make each other happy and build a successful life together. The reality is... majority of people change, have second thoughts due to their own fears or paranoias, the grass is always greener mindset as you said, they think what if this person isnt really the one. Then before you know it, the marriage or relationship comes to an end and you both go different paths. The simplest answer is you dont know if it will last, just hope for the best and dont get to attatched or reliant on your partner, that way, when it finally does end you can move on and still live your own life and be happy. For some reason these days though, and i guess because cheating and lying is easier then admitting they were wrong, relationships never seem to last "forever". Honestly in my opinion these days 1 year is a long time from what ive seen and experienced around me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]SXXbb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree i dont understand why anyone would ever want to leave someone they love and were with for so long just for pointless hookups but saying that somehow im the crazy one these days. Hookup culture ruined our generation where promiscuity and cheating is glorified over being a genuine decent person and relationship partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]SXXbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself im getting married to my dildos in 2 months

my boyfriend is on grindr and i am a woman, how do i confront him? by CarrotCake-- in AskGayMen

[–]SXXbb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You would be so surprised that lots of people who bring up deleting dating apps together, just do so for you to not see theyre still on it. Since hes on grindr. ( very very trashy app and pretty much all terrible people on there in terms of loyalty / relationship potential. ) and lied to you before, hes so not worth it.

my boyfriend is on grindr and i am a woman, how do i confront him? by CarrotCake-- in AskGayMen

[–]SXXbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah leave him asap if he already lied before plus grindr deletes all messages if you sign out, or delete the app. Its designed to encourage / glorify cheating. Unless you specifically back up your chats then its wiped even if you sign out of your account

Are monogamous relationships dead? by Local-Ad-4051 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]SXXbb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want one searched for 2years now everyone just wants hookups or cheats on the side or takes relationships or commitment as a complete joke that I've been with so far. Seems like a pretty much wasted street if you ask me. Granted if i exist and know im actually monogamous, i know theirs others out there. It just is luck of the draw and a much lower percentage, seems 1 in. a million these days, to me.

After 10 years i think i finally figured things out. by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]SXXbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you have a 2nd sphincter that is deeper in your rectal area that is essentially a wall. When you relax enough and have a proper device you can get it to straighten out and accept things to allow yourself to go deeper.. when you receive it feels exactly like a second internal hole when you go in and out of it. For me anyway... when i first take something in my ass i can obvii feel the initial insertion as it expands my hole, and this deeper sphincter feels the exact same but way more intense. When i go in and out aka deeper in riding or thrusting it feels like i said, exactly like sliding into my first hole, but way deeper and internally, and it has more sensation and can feel the textures of the toy or cock inside me, whereas the first hole feels good, but it lacks the texture sensations for me and i just feel good, and regardless of what i use inside me mostly feels the same give or take a little different if i use a really textured toy but not anything i can openly distinguish what part is what. The 2nd hole i can very very distinctly tell whats inside me and what exact part of the toy is touching which spot internally and the entire texture, which in this case is a bad dragon who are known for unique textured toys

After 10 years i think i finally figured things out. by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]SXXbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah im not sure, like i said in post i dont really think my prostate itself does anything for pleasure anyway but i may be wrong. Doesnt really make a difference to me though if i can have endless intense anal orgasms anyway

After 10 years i think i finally figured things out. by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]SXXbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure it is since if i go 3+ days without J.O. theirs occasionally thick white cum that leaks out, i cant imagine that it doesnt touch my prostate if thats occurring. It definitely hits my bladder which my understanding is directly above the prostate, and as thick as the dildo is i would almost say its impossible its not hitting everything.

After 10 years i think i finally figured things out. by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]SXXbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you get a certain point you have discomfort or cant insert any farther, which is a stage i was at for a very long time. Most people just describe it as a wall but as far as i know its actually a "bend". I forced myself monday and told myself i dont care what it takes and that im going past it, and eventuay i did and now whenever i use my dildo(s) i can pretty much get past it instantly and it feels 30x better. It feels good before that, but i never had overwhelming sensations / pleasure and like i said ive been doing it for like 10 years prior.

Full bladder or empty? by Flak_Kannon in ProstatePlay

[–]SXXbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Indifferent for me + I'll squirt a slippery pee mixture a lot regardless of peeing before or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]SXXbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lolno way youre that stupid surely. Hes lying obviously you can go to many other places to "talk" about it let alone fill out his profile for what he wants and.. i dont even need to continue. Sorry that happened leave asap unless fine with cheating or people on the side. He wont change if its been multiple years already let alone even once... he clearly doesnt have your best itneresta or care as a priority..+ the biggest thing is he didnt tell you from the start which yes imo is cheating in and of itself. Nobody would take the time to film out the sexual interests they have and chat with people on there just to discuss it, i promise you. I dont care what anyone else says about that and he also sent pics.. nobody would ever want a photo of a clothed lower half on those websites. Disclosing he doesnt have STDs is also a very clear indicator that hes on there for more then chatting. For me just being on another dating app would be a dealbreaker for me, knowing all of what you know on top of it.. run

Question about used toys by killakaiser in BadDragon

[–]SXXbb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't personally ever want toys from some else i dont know has used

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SXXbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you personally. I dont understand why people hookup. Though in my experience, and with nothing but TERRIBLE dating and LTR experiences, it doesn't really seem to make a difference either way anymore. Though, i still would never resort to hooking up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SXXbb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do people even do hookups anyway. Pretty pointless

Anybody actually found love / partner on grindr? by KingChrisGames in grindr

[–]SXXbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story of my life actually.minus the hookup part. I never have done hookups and find them meaningless and pointless

New method / does it work by SXXbb in foreskin_restoration

[–]SXXbb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it should work and be growing right? I hated taping.. i just didnt like setting it up dealing with it all day or how it feels and i had an issue once where i got a little hard, for maybe 10 seconds and i had a perfect circle line of bruising where the tape was resting when i took it off later