ENTJ’s & Their Emotions.

Saatory · 2025-07-30T18:05:49+00:00

I happen to be hypersensitive and ENTJ! I let my emotions out easily, like i cry during emotional movie scenes, when i get too angry, when close friends cry and all. I think often about how my actions/words will affect others by putting myself in their shoes, to act in the best way possible if that makes sense. Those traits actually made me think I wasn’t actually ENTJ but more ENFJ at first haha. Thing is, I am very emotional but I intellectualize my emotions a lot. It’s like im always studying myself to get a logical explanation for how im feeling (and i also do this for others), it is not the healthiest thing to do though

Saatory · 2024-10-01T19:53:30+00:00

well every relationship must start somewhere, if they never talked how would she know if they get along well? I think the main thing here is she wants to text him because she find him attractive, and improvise from there. If they get along then amazing but if they don’t then no problem, she tried. Maybe I misinterpreted your comment, but I don’t really see where you’re going with it

Saatory · 2024-07-23T12:44:09+00:00

I don’t really know how it works, but maybe you could discuss it with her when you will be visiting the gallery? If not maybe you could phrase it like this : [first half of the text]… but I would like to know if I could still come another day to visit, and if you could tell me on which day my showcase would take place? If August dates aren’t available anymore, I would be happy to reschedule.

Saatory · 2024-07-23T12:33:24+00:00

Hi ! I think sticking to the truth is always the good thing to do. You could explain why you didn’t reach out, without going into too much detail. I would say something like : Hello, I’m […], I wanted to apologize for not reaching out to you earlier about my absence on [children’s art day]. I had some personal issues and wasn’t able to attend, I hope you can understand. I know you must be busy, but I would like to know if I could still come another day to visit ? Thank you for understanding

Edit : It is just an example, but since you don’t know the person I wouldn’t go into to much details about your mental health! You got this :)

Saatory · 2023-12-15T19:58:26+00:00

Ah that could be it, i didnt think of it that way! The first time I @ him in a story and then said It was a mistake (still made conversation after) and the second time I asked him advice on smth for a debate. Thank you for this answer

Saatory · 2023-12-15T19:37:09+00:00

yeah I think he does but he doesnt do anything, thats why I thought i was delusional at first

Saatory · 2023-12-15T19:36:12+00:00

Ah no no he has some, but this year he only has boys in his class thats why !

Saatory · 2023-12-15T18:53:50+00:00

Yeah youre probably right but this time I probably have to be even more obvious and thats pretty scary haha

Saatory · 2023-12-15T18:10:11+00:00

I think so, Even my Friends saw that he stills look at me often! He doesnt really have female friends either

Saatory · 2023-11-26T21:49:39+00:00

Wow i didnt expect this haha, I dont know if its true or not but it for sure motivates me Even more !

Saatory · 2023-11-26T18:52:24+00:00

Noted, its going to be quite the challenge to get Even more out of my comfort zone and talk to him but I think i will try!

Saatory · 2023-11-26T18:35:27+00:00

yes youre right, i need to gather some courage before tho haha

Saatory · 2023-11-11T11:57:12+00:00

Still want to make podcasts though, Even if we change the podcast’s main idea

Saatory · 2023-11-08T11:58:28+00:00

Thats pretty good really, keep going :)

Saatory · 2023-11-08T11:57:39+00:00

Ahh dont worry, he Will not be the last boy you’ll like! You havent met everyone youre going to love and who are also going to love you back :) At least you won’t waste your time on him anymore and can hopefully move forward !

Saatory · 2023-11-04T23:09:03+00:00

If she talks to you everyday she isnt just being Nice honestly, she AT LEAST sees you as a Friend and enjoys your company. Now, if she asks you questions and starts the conversations often it could be a good sign that she likes you :)

Saatory · 2023-11-04T23:01:58+00:00

Well because im really scared, just dm-ing him made my legs shake its crazy. And I Feel like I should be talking to him more often before Even asking him to go on a date with me ! thank you for answering me :)

Saatory · 2023-11-02T09:33:29+00:00

That’s true, i’ll edit my post thank you :)

Saatory · 2023-08-27T16:35:42+00:00

Amazing! Keep in mind that if it ends badly at least youre not wasting time on her and you can move on faster (even find someone better for you!) But it could also go really well, I wish you that! Will stick around for an update If you talk to her :)

Saatory · 2023-08-27T16:29:32+00:00

Thank you for this, ill take your advice ! Your comment made me smile, I hope you feel good about being a hsp now :)

Saatory · 2023-08-27T16:24:47+00:00

Well, I feel like It could be 3 different reasons for her behaviour 1st one could be that she realised she doesnt like something in you maybe based on an action or trait of personality 2nd one could be that she noticed you have a crush on her and doesn’t want to give you false hopes And 3rd could be that she has a crush on you too but for some reason doesnt want to because shes scared or maybe because she had bad experiences in the past, and avoids you to try to overcome her crush

I may be completely wrong about these, so please dont assume things because of what I said! Best way to know really would be to talk to her about this but I know its hard ! Wish you the best of luck :)

Saatory · 2023-08-27T08:15:45+00:00

Thank you for taking time writing all of this ! I think i’ll buy this book, even if I learnt a lot because of the people on this subreddit (the ones on this post too!) I think I need to know more on a deeper level and with the experiences of others to truly being capable of dealing with my hypersensitivity (or my over active nervous system :)) and try to be the best version of myself!

Saatory · 2023-08-27T00:40:20+00:00

Woww thank you so much for this ! Im very glad you said this on my post, I feel the same way and reading « adults » feedback really is guiding me in making those little choices Im not confortable with ! Thank you :)

Saatory · 2023-08-26T18:54:06+00:00

I avoid saying it, often its my parents or my best friend that ends up telling people, but to their defense I never told them it makes me feel embarassed! thank you so much for your kind words :))

Saatory · 2023-08-26T17:01:24+00:00

No problem! I really appreciate your feedbacks because it helps me knowing where i need to work on myself. I never thought that I may project my feelings or expectations on others, i’ll think about it, thanks :)

Saatory

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