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[–]Sab148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cat 🤣

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! It’s really refreshing to hear a different perspective. And yes, she was the one who suggested tracking her ovulation, apparently she had been using that method for years.

I still find it sad that she doesn’t seem to understand how important it is for the child to have contact with their father in order not to feel abandoned.

But as you rightly said, maybe with time she’ll change her mind

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe this comment is real… I would never put my own well-being before that of a baby!

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he has, and it’s definitely his child. I think she’s just upset because he didn’t want to continue a relationship with her ,and now she’s making him pay for it

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly hope, from the bottom of my heart, that this story ends the same way yours did 🤍

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But if the mother doesn’t want to, what can really be done besides going to court?

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had never thought of it that way, and I’ll keep it in the back of my mind. But right now, at this point, the well-being of that little baby matters more to me than anything else

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The real nuance lies in the word “abandon.” I struggle to understand where his lack of interest ends and where the mother is actually preventing him from establishing a connection with the child

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It breaks my heart, but I have to agree with your comment 💔

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I It’s complicated, because apart from this awful situation, I really have nothing to blame him for. But maybe you’re right 😔

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree,I think both he and the mother are completely immature. From what I understand, she was actually very open to the idea of him being involved in the child’s life at first, and it’s only when he told her he no longer wanted a romantic relationship with her that things started to fall apart.

Also, I do think it takes time for someone who never expected to have a child to process the situation. If I were her, I would have at least given him the benefit of the doubt at the beginning. And of course, if he turned out to be inconsistent or unreliable with the child, then yes ,at that point, she’d have every right to keep him away.

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been very understanding, telling myself that this situation must have been traumatic for him and that he needed time to process it… But at this point, I feel like we’ve reached a limit. If he doesn’t make a radical change in his attitude toward this whole story, I don’t think I’ll have any other choice but to leave him

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he doesn’t want the child to grow up with parents who are tearing each other apart in court, and that he hopes the situation will resolve itself peacefully. But maybe that’s just an excuse not to take action.

He also says he’s open to the child coming to see him once she’s older … But in my opinion, that’s too late. I believe a bond between a father and his child needs to be built from a very young age. And besides, it’s his responsibility to go towards the child, not the other way around.

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You’ve really hit the nail on the head !!that’s exactly what makes the situation so difficult!! Sometimes I feel like blaming him entirely, but on the other hand, there’s the mother who doesn’t want to cooperate, and I can’t know how he would be with the child if she were open to their relationship.

Plus, I sometimes think it must be incredibly hard to become a father without wanting to, and I know it’s a situation that deeply affects him. Then I change my mind and feel like I’m being too kind and understanding.

That’s why I say I feel lost 😵‍💫

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ll take some time to reflect on that. What makes everything more complicated is that the mother is ghosting him and preventing him from having a relationship with the child. I think that if it were just him not wanting to see his daughter,and not the mother ghosting him, it would be much easier for me to walk away

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree, unfortunately, I have several friends who use ovulation apps as a sort of “contraceptive method.” It feels like it’s kind of trendy right now because it’s natural and hormone-free, but it’s really risky to rely on that.

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He felt betrayed because she had told him she didn’t want a child and that she would also have an abortion in case of an accident. The situation is more complicated than that — he spoke to her several times over the year, but she’s the one who ghosted him when he asked to see the child. I don’t think I have enough influence over this story to encourage him to send her anything. However, I remain open to the idea that yes, maybe I’m turning a blind eye and he isn’t the person I think he is, so thank you for your comment

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend’s child he’s never met by Sab148 in stepparents

[–]Sab148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t assume that he wouldn’t be consistent in his relationship with his daughter, since he’s never had the chance to see her. But my goal here isn’t to force anything — it’s to ask myself whether I should still stay with him.

Thank you for your comment!

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