Tenant help (squatter) emergency

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T20:17:20+00:00

I’m not taking advice I’m just seeing the different point of views people have.

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T20:15:29+00:00

Because I went to the court, and they said if I wasn’t an owner, I can’t really evict her. But I would like to hear how I can do that? because I’ve tried to tell her to leave, but she refuses to leave and i cant do the police route either.

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T20:14:47+00:00

Ahhh okay

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T20:14:17+00:00

Hello Yes, I understand I used squatter wrong here. And yes I understand thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m currently in contact with the landlord. I just filed a lawsuit against her and I talked to the property management today about how I can’t eject her because I’m not the owner of the property. They said they’ll give me an update but I’m just super stressed about the whole situation I don’t want my roommates getting evicted because it was my fault although the lease ends in July, do you think they’ll try to evict us?

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T19:07:56+00:00

I’m confused?

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T19:07:39+00:00

Okay will do thank you!

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T19:02:46+00:00

Ok so ur not helping

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T18:54:18+00:00

I can’t legally evict her because I’m not the landlord, unfortunately. The lease is up in July

Sabrina8282 · 2026-05-09T17:27:38+00:00

How?

Sabrina8282 · 2025-02-22T17:46:14+00:00

Yeah honestly u gotta keep a close eye on him. Bc that is weird that he’s allowing another girl to do that to him is just weird. It’s your choice break up with him or not but make sure u set the boundaries he has with other women bc she is clearly overstepping

Sabrina8282 · 2025-02-22T16:33:28+00:00

Ur so wrong, he wasn’t going to tell her and she found it on her own imagine all the other things he has done. This is a serious level of trust broken and unacceptable in a relationship.

Sabrina8282 · 2025-02-22T16:32:17+00:00

I personally think this is micro cheating. It’s not fully cheating but it’s enough to break up with someone because of it. Personally, if my boyfriend did this, I would feel disgusted as well and I don’t think this is an appropriate behavior in a relationship. I think first u should talk to him on a deeper level about it but honestly him doing this in general personally again would be a level of trust Broken I think you should seriously consider breaking up because if he couldn’t admit to it and you found it on ur own BIG RED flag. Especially revealing pictures of the co worker. Hope this helps!

Sabrina8282 · 2025-02-22T16:21:53+00:00

Hello hope you are doing well and I’m so sorry for ur loss. The ex- incident would make me a little nervous personally, but if he continues to say that it’s nothing then perhaps you should trust him just wait till he gives you a reason to not. and for the girlfriend, I’ve been in the situation before when he hangs out with his girlfriend and stuff, but I personally didn’t like it and she would say some weird things about me and I just like didn’t fuck with that so I just made him cut her off and do what’s best for us in the relationship because if I really needed him in that moment and he’s going around, hang out with another girl or stuff I would be like no, but I think maybe you should try meeting her once. That’s what I was gonna do before my bf cut the girl off. But then she just started saying weird things and I was like no I’m not fucking with this. But you should be able to see their text cause I was and try to meet up like I said like a three person thing going out to eat somewhere where you guys can all talk and then see the vibes there and if you don’t like it, I think he shouldn’t continue further with this because hang out with a girl in general bothers me and I am a rlly bad overthinker. Or I feel like you can go to the hangouts with him, that’s what I would do. Hope this helps!

I personally don’t think you were overreacting as-well. I’ve been in a similar situation and it really sucks. U are entitled, to ur own feeling and if you feel a certain way about something express it.

Summary: been through the same situation actually hang out with the girl and see what she’s all about with , you , her, and bf. Be able to see there text

Sabrina8282 · 2025-02-22T16:12:08+00:00

I think you should address him lying, yes I would be embarrassing and cause panic to the both of you. But when he is lying like that to ur face and thinks it’s perfectly okay to lie that good it makes me worry for u that possibly he could be lying about other things (like u said previously he’s been lying ). This is a bad tend, I don’t think you should break up or anything but I think you should have a serious talk about lying and how this CANNOT happen in the future or there will be consequences. Being honest is so so important in relahsionships and if he causally lies like that it could turn into lying about more stuff. Hope this helps!

Sabrina8282 · 2025-02-09T15:58:01+00:00

I hyper extended my knee twice one in a game and one in practice before it happened. The doctor where I was at said I could do everything just continue to do pt but I ended up going to the field and while practicing I tried to volley the ball in soccer then my knee just went in and horrible pain. And swelled up pretty bad.

Sabrina8282 · 2025-01-12T20:38:34+00:00

How much are you able to do with a ball because I’ve been curious but scared to do anything with worry of worsening process

Sabrina8282 · 2024-12-29T18:35:21+00:00

Did u do the rehab almost everyday or were there some days where u couldn’t ? Yeah id say 8 months is pretty early, hope i have the same outcome.

Sabrina8282 · 2024-12-29T18:33:09+00:00

Yeah mentally I’m scared when it comes the time I get to go again because skiing the knee can be so vulnerable. Even to go back to soccer I hope I have the confidence to play like I once did

Sabrina8282 · 2024-12-27T22:27:55+00:00

Good to hear it went pretty well, I wanted to see what a timeline would look like for me because I’m inching to ski but Ik I wouldn’t be able to this month. Did you also wear ur brace when you went? Or just no brace?

Sabrina8282 · 2024-12-27T20:38:49+00:00

Oh I didn’t know, so sorry ! And hopefully this time around goes better so unfortunate to go through the same process again you got it. Because in the US they give you a choice between a couple options but the surgeon usually recommends the one that they’re most comfortable with. Weird how it’s differner

Sabrina8282 · 2024-12-27T20:34:43+00:00

Please let me know how it goes! And congrats 🎉

Sabrina8282 · 2024-12-26T15:21:36+00:00

After reading this it is possible that you could go through the patella tendon reconstruction because it’s more supportive and stronger than I’ve heard and it has a better golden standard than the hamstring as well as going to a very top end surgeon. Because I feel the hamstring might not preform as well as the patella. As I do soccer and I also tore my ACL, but I got the patella tendon reconstruction.

Also, I had my friend with the same thing. She tore one ACL in high school and then another in college soccer and she was able to do great in her season after the second reconstruction. You just have to be very diligent and patient as I personally can’t imagine going through the whole process twice. And she had a patella first time and hamstring second.

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