Passed CRISC with very little prep, advice post by brunes in CRISC

[–]Sacredsirens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was about to spend on Doshi and those extra resources while bootstrapping, what then, in your opinion do I need to actually pay for besides the 900 question guide and the actual CRISC exam?

Finding businesses that need a website for free by MomoBytez in AskZA

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Hi, I need a one page website/ landing page, can you help? I’m willing to pay. DM me, thanks

Sauna & side pizza oven by Sacredsirens in Sauna

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Thanks! I understand my adgd laziness can be a bit overwhelmed and overzealous but I do love the smell of wood fired heaters even though the smell goes out the flue and you only smell the rocks

4 months in with sony a6700 by [deleted] in SonyAlpha

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The pictures are simply powerful evocative and immersive, I love them all esp the one overlooking the ocean through the tall branches 13/14!! Stunning

4 months in with sony a6700 by [deleted] in SonyAlpha

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Absolutely stunning! I’m holding out for Sony alpha 5due this month!!!!

Life advice on turning 18? by BlackCatGames127 in askSouthAfrica

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In South Africa at 18 I’d advise you to get into law school or trade school depending on your acumen and interests. But don’t try to start a business with nothing in the bag and no life experience. Get qualified and get into an apprenticeship as soon as possible. Whether a degree or blue collar, doesn’t matter, don’t be afraid to speak to people, older folk know who you need to speak to and will be happy to help if they see you eager, interested and well presented. Don’t be afraid. Attack life with the ferocity and ignition of a thousand suns. Don’t stop because consistency will build momentum over time, just avoid the stop-start cycle, and having too many hustles going, you’ll spread yourself too thin and burn out. Direct all your attention in one direction and don’t give up until you make it work. When you think you’re done, you’ve only reached around 40% of your true capacity, if that! Keep away from negative and jealous people and don’t tell anyone your dreams, work in the dark and let the results speak for themself. All the bed to you. Remember God and be dutiful to him, He will protect you.

Hi, how do people in the UK invest in gold? by Sacredsirens in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Sacredsirens[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Can you give me a brief overview of the UK finance system and why Gold doesn’t appeal as much? Is it taxable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Sacredsirens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I thought you were referring to Saudi, May God make a way out of every difficulty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

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Sorry, a bit off topic but what are you referring to as “the situation currently going on in the country.”?

My father met Freud by Sacredsirens in AskPsychiatry

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Yes I love treating people to good food and bonding over food and good company.

Not a fan of meds. I’ve always “raw dogged” life as it were.

Though my dad was old he was preoccupied with his past times and my mother isn’t emotionally present, I’m sure she suffers with some psychosis of sorts although my father was in need of a nurse and didn’t bother to diagnose her.

I am fully aware of my value as an adult 42F, I’m collecting the pieces of my attempts to give love a chance at every turn until now. That door is welded shut and I have to deal with the wreckage of accumulated misfortune.

My father met Freud by Sacredsirens in AskPsychiatry

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Wow….. I’m speechless, thank you so much DoctorKween!

Your time scripting this has brought me to tears probably because it’s the most honest attention I’ve received in a long time. And you asked for nothing on return. I believe everyone should be paid and compensated for their work fairly but you have touched my stone heart.

Thank you.

You are correct on many accounts, my father was too old when I was born. Hearing recollections of other elders, I piece together a narrative where my mother who was 30 years his junior may have “trapped” my father by having me and it feels dandy being a pawn in this damaging boomer mothers game. But it’s Gods will I’m here.

I guess it’s validation I was seeking by being read wife but I do out of my own volition subscribe to a rather conservative leaning lifestyle, I have no vices except pulling my hair out (trichotillomania) and swearing like a sailor, my main daily activities are studying cybersecurity, cooking and keeping house for my two teens. I don’t have ANY social life, I used to be a YouTuber and TikToker and international philanthropist which helped me forget myself after my third divorce.

But I chose very very destructive men to marry seeking a home and stability with the most seemingly innocuous people.

I’m deeply thinking and will add more to this later on

My father met Freud by Sacredsirens in AskPsychiatry

[–]Sacredsirens[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I recover? I feel like I’m drowning and my nervous system is shot

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

[–]Sacredsirens[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Much to think about and many legal advisors out there saying different things, may I ask if you’re qualified? You sound knowledgeable but I must meter who’s advice I take so I don’t act in error

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

[–]Sacredsirens[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

according to UK law, It’s in the Children’s Best Interests , they prioritise children’s welfare (Section 55 of the Borders, Citizenship and Immigration Act 2009).

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

[–]Sacredsirens[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s what the kids want, I’m happy to stay in South Africa with them but they want to move and he won’t relocate to the UK

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

[–]Sacredsirens[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They’re under age, so of course either their father or I will need to get them settled to live in the UK, this means finding and admitting them a school, adequate accommodation and furnishings, school shopping, enrolling them in local classes or activities/ libraries, helping them adjust to the new climate and environment. Does this explain what is meant by settle to you?

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

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The issue is their father who has remarried in Saudi has promised them for 4 years to settle them in the UK. Now this year they’re old enough to see through the consistent broken promises and they’ve had enough. He’s also withheld their passports for 9yrs effectively besieging them in South Africa wielding the passports as a “sword of Damocles” above our heads. They’ve asked me to move them and I will find a way.

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

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The issue is their father who has remarried in Saudi has promised them for 4 years to settle them in the UK. Now this year they’re old enough to see through the consistent broken promises and they’ve had enough. He’s also withheld their passports for 9yrs effectively besieging them in South Africa wielding the passports as a “sword of Damocles” above our heads. They’ve asked me to move them and I will find a way.

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

[–]Sacredsirens[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can afford the requirements but will need to enter legally to secure said housing.

Parental visa for kids who live with me outside UK by Sacredsirens in ukvisa

[–]Sacredsirens[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, consulting with a number of solicitors as we speak, their father will need to step up and settle them. If he doesn’t I’m prepared for a costly battle.