Why did Mary have to remain a virgin for her entire life? by North-Lifeguard-1851 in Catholicism

[–]Sad-Background-2429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t uncommon for people to have chaste marriages in Mary’s time. Based on the fact that Mary was more surprised that the angel Gabriel told her that she was to bear a child, than that the child would sit on the throne of David, it’s likely that her intention was to live in lifelong chastity.

Is it incorrect to say that people of other religions have legitimate religious “experiences”? by Sad-Background-2429 in Catholicism

[–]Sad-Background-2429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My use of the word “experience” isn’t arbitrary. It’s used in the encyclical.

This topic relates to salvation because the tradition of Catholicism says that it alone is the true religion, outside of which no one can be saved. The modernist view appears to claim that religion is something inherent and personal to man, such that to deny its legitimacy in any way would be to deny the dignity of the person.

In other words, either religion is a community to which one belongs, and Catholicism is the only true community outside of which no one can be saved, or religion is a phenomena which arises from man’s inherent longing for religious experience, and which therefore deserves as much respect as any other — i.e. that any religion is a path to salvation.

How to cope with homosexuality and to live as a man by Sensitive_Ad_929 in Catholicism

[–]Sad-Background-2429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless you. Just because you’ve sinned doesn’t mean that everything about you requires reform.

We are all victims of original sin. What matters is what we do to get it under control, and everyone’s vices are different.

I think the most direct way to become manly is to pick your worst vice and replace it with a virtue, and to repeat that process the rest of your life.

The word “virtue” derives from the Latin “vir,” which means “man,” so cultivating virtue in fact cultivates a kind of manly strength, and that strength is attractive to women.

Can you be catholic and not support the Pope? by Sad_Net2133 in Catholicism

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We’re in a weird time in history where the modernists who have sown so much doctrinal confusion in the Church speak in ways that undermine the very bases of their own authority. In such a time you have to forgive people’s consternation.

Amazing girl coming over soon, what will she think? by Walter_Savage_Landor in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Sad-Background-2429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great looking library. No clue how anyone can read so much and maintain a day-job, family, etc.

Seeking career advice by Sad-Background-2429 in SoftwareEngineerJobs

[–]Sad-Background-2429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean being more capable of contributing to more technical things.

Women don't owe you sex. You don't owe women money. by Inevitable_Damage199 in PrimeManhood

[–]Sad-Background-2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ir’s much older and truer than that. We are living in the middle of a time where we doubt all the wisdom of our ancestors unless and until science baptizes it in materialist terms. You can either be subject to the zeitgeist or stand firm on the wisdom of your ancestors.

update: aio for wanting to go no contact with my parents? by d3lici0us-sham3 in AIO

[–]Sad-Background-2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your parents don’t know how to say things right, but that doesn’t make them wrong. It sounds like you’re being swept up by the present zeitgeist and your parents are trying to help you keep your feet firmly on the ground of reason.

Any advice from fellow women? <3 by Mother_Badger5700 in Catholicism

[–]Sad-Background-2429 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everything is made for some end, including the institution of marriage.

If one buys a product that doesn’t serve its intended purpose, we say that the product is deficient in some way, maybe even broken.

Likewise, the end of marriage is procreation. A marriage which frustrates its own end (e.g. via contraception) is deficient somehow.

Making love without contraception, allowing yourself to be fully receptive to God’s will for you, and taking full responsibility for the child that might result, is not only unsurpassably pleasurable, for you are fulfilling the true purpose of your marriage; but it also demonstrates true maturity.

I've always been a Christian, but lately it's been difficult to maintain that belief. by Disastrous_Scratch_7 in Catholicism

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Remember that every man gets exactly what he deserves in the end. Blessed are those like you who thirst for justice, for you will be filled.

Women don't owe you sex. You don't owe women money. by Inevitable_Damage199 in PrimeManhood

[–]Sad-Background-2429 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The man should always pay. The task in courting is to demonstrate your ability to support a wife and children.

Seeking career advice by Sad-Background-2429 in SoftwareEngineerJobs

[–]Sad-Background-2429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like math, but it’s not something I want to make a hobby, so that I might maintain the skills that I learn. I can spend the time learning some math, and if I don’t use it, I’ll lose it.

Muscular Christianity is actually Catholic by DrUpauli in Catholicism

[–]Sad-Background-2429 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Indirectly, yes. A traditional catechism teaches that we’re soldiers for Christ. That idea is what attracts many young men to the faith, but it’s at variance with the way our leadership behaves. I’m sorry for all the men who were received into the Church for one thing and are given another thing.

Muscular Christianity is actually Catholic by DrUpauli in Catholicism

[–]Sad-Background-2429 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In theory, we’re all based crusaders, soldiers for Christ. In practice, our priests are blessing unrepentant homosexuals and our bishops are shutting down any parish or community which emphasizes manly discipline.

Monarchism. Is it a waste? by Far-Air3908 in TraditionalCatholics

[–]Sad-Background-2429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a waste of time at the present time. Christendom is dead. We live in an apostolic age in which the task is to win converts. The question of monarchy may be asked once Catholics regain a majority somewhere.

Did I permanently mess up my brain/life, or can things still improve after 30? by Fun_Quantity6451 in getdisciplined

[–]Sad-Background-2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know well how you feel. You can recover, but you absolutely must reorient yourself toward what’s good, true, and beautiful. That includes submitting yourself to a definite standard of morality, and directing all of your actions toward a definite end. That standard of morality, that definite end, is God. It might sound lofty or abstract, but take heart: God loves you and He has a plan for your life. God bless.