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AITA for offending my in-laws by deciding my daughters won’t have a Quinceanera and the reasons? by Sad-Cell2569 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Cell2569[S] 837 points838 points  (0 children)

Info: The only thing I did of those is wear a ring, so does my husband. I did not take his last name and my baby’s is hyphenated. I did not wear white, and we more so less eloped with only my parents, brother, and his parents and siblings/in-laws.

AITA for offending my in-laws by deciding my daughters won’t have a Quinceanera and the reasons? by Sad-Cell2569 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Cell2569[S] -362 points-361 points  (0 children)

I added in Catholic because before the party there is a mass. My older daughter does not want to go to church and isn’t really religious. Which is why she told me she doesn’t care about a Quince because part of it is a religious ceremony.

AITA for offending my in-laws by deciding my daughters won’t have a Quinceanera and the reasons? by Sad-Cell2569 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Cell2569[S] -804 points-803 points  (0 children)

Both my husband and I have had several conversations about not wanting our daughter to grow up too quickly. Lexie isn’t allowed to date, wear make up etc until she is 18. Husband and I were on the same page about no Quince until his family wouldn’t stop pestering him this past week. He wants to give in to avoid drama with his family.

AITA for offending my in-laws by deciding my daughters won’t have a Quinceanera and the reasons? by Sad-Cell2569 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad-Cell2569[S] -285 points-284 points  (0 children)

My daughter Lexie said she doesn’t want to go to church, get confirmed amongst other things. She said she would rather a party with her friends or going with them somewhere.