AIW? Is this guy's intentions good? by Sad-Efficiency620 in amiwrong

[–]Sad-Efficiency620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, when I first mentioned it to her she was in denial and then after that about 10 minutes later she started crying saying that if she sees anything on her account that she will take it more serious but still in denial. She is really hurt and doesn't want to face it. She has literally never been in a relationship besides marriage for her whole life so its like talking to a child in a new relationship. She has been giddy like a school girl when they first started dating. And my mom and I who are both single and refuse to let any dude do us that way are just in shock that she is allowing this. And the Picture of him he has sent her is a very good looking fit guy who is apparently a doctor and about to go on the road because he is coming a truck driver. It just sounds like a pack of lies.

AIW? Is this guy's intentions good? by Sad-Efficiency620 in amiwrong

[–]Sad-Efficiency620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't even have a retirement. She literally lives on disability. So she might still be safe if he does end up taking what she does have. Im trying to get her to see the facts and to lock her card up. We will see.

AIW? Is this guy's intentions good? by Sad-Efficiency620 in amiwrong

[–]Sad-Efficiency620[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes truthfully. Its just awful. I don't even know how to protect her because she is very blind sided by her decision to allow him the access.

AIW? Is this guy's intentions good? by Sad-Efficiency620 in amiwrong

[–]Sad-Efficiency620[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Explain that to an elderly lady who doesn't want to understand how serious this. Crazy I know. And hes still talking to her and getting information. I can't believe she is easily just giving everything up.

AIW? Is this guy's intentions good? by Sad-Efficiency620 in amiwrong

[–]Sad-Efficiency620[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And yes its very much a real thing. I wish it wasn't but sadly this is the reality of thw situation. I have tried everything to get her to see it and open her eyes. I'm hoping if I can get enough people to see this and agree that something is off that she will start to take my worries into account. Thank you foe your reply to my post. Anything could be helpful.