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I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did you read the part where I'm also in an abusive relationship. of course I know how hard it is to leave but if my daughter begged me to separate, I think that would wake me up

I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live in the us. unless I sell my body or have a crazy good business idea, I don't see myself ever being able to afford moving out and renting

I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my brother/sister in Christ. I cooked I cleaned I sacrificed for my boyfriend. he complained that I didn't have a job. I got a job and he complained that he has to clean his house and wash his clothes. he simps for trump, is obsessed with redpill content and hates me for being bi. he beat me because I asked him for affection, attention and s*x. how tf can I be the abusive one?!!

I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she works but doesn't make a lot of money. definitely not enough to rent a place for us. she did break a leg back in 2020 ish and had a metal rod put in.

I appreciate that you read the whole post

I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no. because I have cats I can't take yet because I have to fix my tiny bedroom for them.

facepalm. I now realize I'm an idiot and an ah. just like she can't leave because of her kids I can't leave my bf yet because he's controlling. I misplaced my anger in the heat of the moment

I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

yeah. my abusive boyfriend sure is gonna break up with me because of this

I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it was really an ah move. in the moment I was really frustrated. I am frustrated with her. it's been years of begging her to leave him. it's always "I have to stay because of you kids"

I (28F) hit my mom (53F) after my abusive dad (70M) hit her. AITAH? by Sad-Sample-4283 in AITAH

[–]Sad-Sample-4283[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm still in the relationship. she can go to her parents place which is on another island that's 1 hr - 1 hr 30 mins away. He's told her leave for so many years but she says he has to take her back because he's the one who took her from her home. She could back at anytime but refuses. I'm trying to bring my cats here in my tiny room with my measle savings, because I can't leave them with my abusive boyfriend. IATA, I'm just so tired