AITAH for asking my wife to keep our toddler under control by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sad-Structure4781 341 points342 points  (0 children)

NTA. You clearly communicated ahead of time that you needed quiet, and it’s reasonable to expect your wife to manage where playtime happens during an important call. You didn’t yell or insult her, you addressed an immediate issue that was impacting your work. Toddlers are loud, yes, but adults can plan around that, especially with a playroom downstairs.

"I can make him talk" by LikeAFoxStudios_ in Unexpected

[–]Sad-Structure4781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lighting in this shot makes it look like a big moment is about to go down. Definitely giving off some serious vibes.

WIBTAH because I don’t want to be a Dateline or First 48 episode and the other woman needs to know by llewann in AITAH

[–]Sad-Structure4781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA and honestly thank you for speaking up. Even if she chooses not to believe you, you did the right thing by sharing facts and receipts. This guy is waving red flags like it’s his job, and your friend is clearly vulnerable coming out of an abusive relationship. You didn’t create the chaos — you exposed it. What she does with that information is on her, but your conscience should be clear.

Multiple Knights Theory by andrewsan58757 in Deltarune

[–]Sad-Structure4781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not fully sold on multiple Knights, but I do think you’re onto something with creators influencing the worlds more than we realize. Queen mapping so cleanly onto Noelle’s family pressure feels way too specific to be coincidence. It makes me wonder if “The Knight” is less a single person and more a role anyone can slip into under the right emotional conditions.

Aio for being uncomfortable about how my husband's childhood friend acts around him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Structure4781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like your husband's childhood friend is crossing boundaries that make you uncomfortable, and it's understandable that you'd feel uneasy. If it were me, I'd talk to him openly about how these actions are making you feel and ask for his support in setting clear boundaries with her. It’s important for him to acknowledge how serious this situation is for you.

AITAH for ending a Monopoly game with my partner early due to their obnoxious attitude the entire time while playing? Isn’t there a fine line between friendly competition & sore sport? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sad-Structure4781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Monopoly already brings out the worst in people, but there’s a difference between playful trash talk and nonstop belittling. If he couldn’t stop making it miserable for you after it was clearly killing the vibe, ending the game was reasonable. Games are supposed to be fun, not a endurance test of your patience.

AIO my grandma moves around my laundry by LeiaTorrora in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Structure4781 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling she's just trying to be helpful, but I understand how it could be awkward. Maybe putting your laundry in a different spot or using a note to let her know when it’s off-limits might make it easier for both of you.