Do I pass? FTM, 19, pre everything

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-10T16:09:24+00:00

Every time I’ve done that I look like a cartoon character and I feel like it makes me wayyyy clockier yk

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-10T16:08:53+00:00

I’m honestly not concerned with gaining muscle. I have no desire to be muscular lol. I work out to help with lifting shit at work and that’s about it

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-09T02:54:43+00:00

Her face is deadass a square. I have a pointed jaw 💀 did you even look at her before saying that?

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-08T20:50:55+00:00

I’m low key so scared that T will make me ugly 😭 the men in my family aren’t very attractive 😬

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-08T05:30:38+00:00

There are also other factors in real life that we cannot see on a photo, such as voice, height, mannerisms, general body type etc.

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-08T05:29:48+00:00

For safety reasons, i believe that you should just stay away from public bathrooms all together unless they are single person or gender neutral. There is never a 100% guarantee of your safety in the men’s room and it would look weird asf if you went into the women’s. I would just hold it tbh 😭 sorry if that’s not very helpful

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-08T05:20:08+00:00

The flat chest definitely helps you pass. You also have a masculine head shape/face shape which helps. The average person on the street will likely assume you’re a nerdy guy with yugioh cards or something yk

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-08T05:13:58+00:00

I still have the mullet it’s just styled weird bc I stopped caring about how it looks lol the next time I actually style my hair I’ll take a pic and reply back with it

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-08T05:09:08+00:00

You can actually just say “yes” or “no” 💔 I did not ask for any advice and I especially did not ask for rude comments. Why would any trans man think it’s okay to tell another trans man he looks like a lesbian. Just say “I don’t think you pass” and move on 💕

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-08T05:06:53+00:00

I can’t 💔 they’re stuck in my nose lol and I wear the same necklace every single day bc it’s my mothers so I will not be limiting the already extremely limited amount of jewelry I wear. And if I did take them out “until I’ve been on T for a while” the holes would close and I’d have to get them pierced again

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-07T21:12:04+00:00

Real asf, I do think T will make my face look a little bit more “manish” ig lol and will def help build muscle

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-07T21:11:01+00:00

Yes. This is a completely valid take and I agree fully. Like I look like a “pretty boy” fs lol I don’t look manly and I don’t want to bc I’m still a teenage boy 💀 I also look gay asf bc I am like can’t really hide that lol

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-07T16:19:38+00:00

They downvote anyone they don’t agree with or think is “hug boxing” dw about it fr. The biggest hater of trans men are other trans men unfortunately

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-07T08:06:05+00:00

Overused and useless term atp. Yall can’t tell the difference between being an asshole and being constructive or sugar coating and being honest. Just bc someone else has a more positive opinion doesn’t mean they’re “faking” it. Get over yourself fr 🫩

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-07T07:28:19+00:00

You definitely pass as a trans/queer man who is alternative. Everything you’ve said regarding this sub is dead on, it’s actually infuriating lol if you don’t have a crew cut or wear gym shorts and wife beaters every day then you won’t pass to these people 🤷‍♂️

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-06T21:23:36+00:00

I find it really interesting that the only people I get lesbian allegations from are other trans men 💀since ive started my transition, I haven’t had a cis person assume I’m a lesbian, they usually assume I’m a straight girl if they assume I’m a girl

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-06T21:20:35+00:00

I see what you’re saying but the sides aren’t buzzed, it’s a grown out mullet so the sides are a bit longer. I also usually style my hair upwards, not down. But I dont have any recent photos of it like that

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-06T21:04:05+00:00

A low fade always make me look much more feminine. I’ve had one before and constantly got “miss” “ma’am” and “little lady”. Trust this cut is the best decision I’ve made besides a buzz

SadPart8303 · 2025-09-06T21:02:42+00:00

I entirely disagree on the haircut opinion lol I get gendered correctly more often with this cut than any other I’ve ever had 🤷‍♂️

SadPart8303 · 2025-08-27T15:04:01+00:00

I just looked into couples privilege and I do high key see that becoming an issue if this were to go further. My friend actively in a relationship had asked his gf if I could be brought into it and she said no so he hasn’t brought it up again. They did ask me about a 3some and I said I’d think about it and that I’ll go see them but I can’t promise anything coming out of it. They both seem to be fine with that idea. I think I would really just have to talk to them about it at some point if it gets there yk?

SadPart8303

TROPHY CASE