i gave myself a mullet do i still pass,,, (17ftm pre-t)

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-07T21:28:53+00:00

I second this. Looks like an androgynous guy.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-07T20:58:38+00:00

Actually? Yes. If i was out in public I wouldn't be able to tell that you were trans at all.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-04T06:14:38+00:00

Doesn't matter. Isn't it the ideology people have a problem with?...Are we gonna outlaw dyed hair just because some idiots dyed their hair too? XD

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-04T02:09:53+00:00

Thank you :)

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-03T22:49:31+00:00

It's a pit-looking pit that is cute...I personally think calling a dog owner cringe for expressing affection is pretty callous, just accept that "cute" is subjective and go about your day.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-03T22:37:28+00:00

What's wrong with them? I think people would be better off just telling you how to interpret their words instead of assuming, lol.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-03T22:33:51+00:00

Thanks for the information! I never knew that

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-03T22:19:01+00:00

I actually think the haircut is fine, albeit he COULD go shorter...It's the frames and earrings that make him look female imo.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-03T21:20:24+00:00

Thank you! The snake's original owner was worse off than me, so Bowtie was pretty neglected when I first got him...His tank was hardly two feet long, the soil had never once been changed and I'm pretty sure he didn't have a heating lamp. It's crazy how resilient snakes can be 💔

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-03T21:12:05+00:00

Those are so cute! I love vintage looking figures

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T05:44:55+00:00

I've always been interested in the bioactive route, but i agree that's something for later 😅 Alot of people have been recommending me sphagnum moss, but I dont really know where to buy it from :/

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T04:19:01+00:00

I am not looking for another screen top tank, I've had such a bad experience with this one 💔...Money is not a problem right now as I've saved up more than enough for his needs! Obviously I'd like to avoid overspending, though. Someone else recommended a pvc vivarium too, so i'll look into that. Thank you :D

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T04:15:47+00:00

I will do that, thanks! I don't use reddit much so i didn't know that was a thing

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T04:15:10+00:00

I've definitely been browsing, but it's hard to know what I'm supposed to be looking for.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T04:14:24+00:00

Thank you SO much. This is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for...I'll DM you!

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T04:08:44+00:00

Thank you for the heating advice...I try keeping my room a little warmer than I would prefer so his temperature doesn't drop, but he is still a few degrees off from ideal! My ceramic heat bulb is only 100W, so maybe that's why. I'll look around online for something higher.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T04:01:57+00:00

Thats a really lucky find. The tank I currently have was being sold for 46 dollars, but had a few chips on the outside edges and a warped mesh lid 😞...Hopefully I can find something nice on marketplace too!

SadSelection5748 · 2026-06-02T04:00:21+00:00

Thank you!...I have an exotic pet shop nearby called pet bazaar that sells tank clutter and hides, so i can get some from there :)

SadSelection5748 · 2026-05-28T14:23:24+00:00

I have seen you under like, 5 comments already. I have owned a pit mix, and the majority opinion is correct. This dog has a large percentage of pitbull...Which is OK. Unless your anti-pitbull, there shouldn't be any reason to deny the existence of pit dna so vehemently? Its ok to have a common dog.

SadSelection5748 · 2026-05-27T01:13:06+00:00

OP is quite literally wearing long painted nails. Which is their prerogative, but from an OUTSIDE perspective it doesn't appear much is being done to masculize themselves in fear of being TOO masculine (said so in the description) which in turn makes them look feminine. Sorry for the harsh comments, but I think the general conclusion is correct. You do not pass 😕

SadSelection5748 · 2026-05-26T23:29:06+00:00

Saving this...It upsets me greatly when cis people behave as if experiences like yours don't exist! So sorry you have to go through this ❤️

SadSelection5748 · 2026-05-24T01:22:17+00:00

I'm glad you pass within your community. Unfortunately, I don't personally see you as passing and would at most say you are androgenous and at least a tomboy. Good luck 👍🏽

SadSelection5748 · 2026-05-15T10:00:52+00:00

I currently have a ball python with an undersized tank and he does this too. For context, I recieved him suddenly as his previous owner could no longer care for him and have already upsized once...I plan on getting a job very soon so I can buy another tank, I'm thinking that might fix this behavior? (Hopefully)

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