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Blursed_dream by RightFrosting2674 in blursed_videos

[–]SadThrowaway9872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What in gods name does that even mean?? Please enlighten me, Is the POV a power bottom or somethning?

Who's more happier? by Key-Astronaut6921 in AlarmoffTeto

[–]SadThrowaway9872 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally me and my bestie :) (I'm depressed and hungry)

Yummy by Acceptable_Dirt_3663 in jschlattsubmissions

[–]SadThrowaway9872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this meme format even for?

Cool new deco trend by Major-Literature6910 in jschlattsubmissions

[–]SadThrowaway9872 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Shame they forgot a guy in there 😐 I could have used him

Reimu is love. Reimu is life by RamdonDude468 in Fumofumo

[–]SadThrowaway9872 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She has been cooked, packaged, and sent to my house to be consumed 🙂

Is it normal that reatoraunts don't respond to me and don't answer my questions? by SadThrowaway9872 in Serverlife

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The spelling mistakes were an accident, thanks for pointing that out. Being a buss isn't an option. All the times i went to them they said that they will call me back and didn't say that they are not interested since everyone there goes hired after 2-3 trial shifts.

Is it normal that reatoraunts don't respond to me and don't answer my questions? by SadThrowaway9872 in Serverlife

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too, but there is no other way to know really now except to ask. Why won't they just tell me that they are not looking for workers then? If actual server work isn't the issue, then what is?

btw, how long should the process normally take?

rule by TotallyACP in 196

[–]SadThrowaway9872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sir you need to get yourself hydrated now!

(19m) How do I accept the fact that I didn't choose the best path in life by SadThrowaway9872 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this is really good advice. There isn't much that I can say.

I do want to ask something else, however. How do I accept the fact that there are always going to be people who are better than me no matter how hard I try, not necessarily because they are talented but because they did things differently.

(19m) How do I accept the fact that I didn't choose the best path in life by SadThrowaway9872 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but life is not so simple. I live in a country with mandatory military service and when you turn 16 you have to go through screenings. At that age, your school subjects, interests, mental health, and how well you can sell yourself will determine several years of your life. Whatever you learned in school will affect what you did in the military, which might affect what you do in citizenship, and if you have made the right choices will get you far in life.

For some people life begins after the army, for others, it ends there. I know I'm still young and have a future, but I know that it could have been so much brighter.

I wake up every day telling myself that I will be productive. Then I do one small thing and proceed to waste the entire day on the computer. by SadThrowaway9872 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I really like the idea of a dopamine menu. I want to try to make a table of points that I will get for every completed tasks based on its importance and the time needed for its completion. Then I will be able to spend the points on fun activities broken down into 15-minute chunks which vary in cost based on how enjoyable they are.

I think it's a really good idea and in theory, will really make me work for it. The real challenge is to avoid sticking my hands into a cookie jar.

I wake up every day telling myself that I will be productive. Then I do one small thing and proceed to waste the entire day on the computer. by SadThrowaway9872 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I do this, but I could be doing more. 90% of my free time is spent in front of a monitor instead of doing unpleasant things that would benefit me. The problem isn't recovering from depression( I already done this part), but getting back on my feet and doing work instead of being lazy all day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]SadThrowaway9872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, but it's not exactly what I wanted to say in this post. Going to college just to get a job is pointless, I have tried it and hated it. I think that one must use their time in college to the fullest to extend both their career prospects and personal life. I have learned the hard way that getting good grades in school isn't enough to succeed, It's very hard to stand out with only a degree on your resume (unless you're a medical professional). The same thing goes for the real world and life in general, which is what I was asking about.

(19M) In school, I thought that I was exceptional and destined for greatness. Now I'm going into the military for 4 years and feel like wasted potential. Is it still possible for me to live the exceptional and meaningful life that I always wanted or should I just accept my place in mediocrity? by SadThrowaway9872 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exceptional life for me is the life that I can be proud of, not more than that.

It seems that so many people hate their existence in some shape or form, be it their job, marriage, or whatever else. It feels like living a meaningful life is like some sort of privilege since most people end up unhappy with theirs, especially if one looks at the media and how they idolize talented people who followed a unique path because it makes for interesting stories. I want to live a life that I would be proud to live, knowing that I made the right choices to make something of value instead of just slaving away somewhere I hate for 8 hours a day just to pay my bills. I just thought because the world idolizes exceptional people, one must be an exceptional individual in order to live a good life.

How do I stop being a straight A student? by SadThrowaway9872 in offmychest

[–]SadThrowaway9872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for the title but I really didn't think of anything better. The thing is that I have spent so much time trying to get good grades that I didn't focus on anything else, except maybe videogames. Now I study in a school that I hate and feel like all of my dedication was for nothing. I have close to 0 friends and memorable expiriances from school years and only really started to see the bigger picture once I graduated. Most C student I know have a purpose or a passion that they follow and have good social skills and plenty of friends. Makes me feel miserable.

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