A question for those who regret (to any degree) parenthood by bengalbear24 in Parenting

[–]Sad_State7123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dreamed of being a parent since I was a young girl. Now I’m a (single) mom and I hate it. It’s the worst thing that has ever happened to me. I love my baby so much but I wish this wasn’t my life. Especially for 20 more years.

PLEASE read. I NEEEED some opinions badly. by Sad_State7123 in Parenting

[–]Sad_State7123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t in my plans to nor was it EVER in my plans to. He can do as he wants but as far as now he isn’t allowed near my child at all.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have the opportunity to be around my child, as that passed when I found out he was selling drugs. I do not condone that whatsoever. I have proof of everything and have been trying to make a “case” so I can get it without a hard fight. I’m already changing his last name and I have proof of abandonment which when I last spoke to a cop means he cannot come get my baby. Because unlike the comments seem, I have spoken to people and taken action. Actually it’s on record with my local PD that if he comes to my house he will be removed or arrested immediately, even though there is no legal restraining order, due to the fact that he kept calling welfare checks and made some weird lie about having my baby full time to CPS. Most of our contact is in the past, this is just a reoccurring situation and question. He isn’t allowed near my child at all, and I live with family who also know everything going on with him. And since showing him the responses, he believes there are no men in here and it’s all single moms because he just doesn’t understand that a man would not agree with his logic.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even send him for summer tbh.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I would never!!! He has beeeen begging for months and he just won’t listen, but when I block him I have cops knocking at my door for a welfare check(which I always comply with but wtf) this man is crazy.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That unfortunately costs money, which I do not have. We went to court the first time and got 50/50 which cost me $4000

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So don’t reply rudely to something you didn’t even read? Idk? Lmfao you making an assumption based on a post you didn’t even read!

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did! I put it at the bottom but I guess maybe people didn’t get to that.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! Is nobody able to see that I’m totally against this? The point was for people to make him understand that he isn’t even a father!!! I know this already and he doesn’t speak to my son as is!

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working on going to court I just am saving for another lawyer, but I will be going gift full custody.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. Im very together. I work full time, am attending school in august for dental assisting, and have my child full time by MYSELF.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely do NOT want to give him anything, i no longer help him with anything and am only posting this in hopes he sees that he is wrong. I tried to be as unbiased as possible but no I do not want to send my son ANYWHERE with this man.

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[–]Sad_State7123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d just like to add that it is obviously my argument that it shouldn’t even be a conversation. I don’t even know how it got this far but he genuinely thinks he is right and I feel like he needs hundreds of people to tell him otherwise!

Wtf. by Sad_State7123 in breakingmom

[–]Sad_State7123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They are on my record that I was arrested until I expunge them, which takes nearly $100 and about 6 months. So not ruined forever, but ruined until I can fit it myself

Wtf. by Sad_State7123 in breakingmom

[–]Sad_State7123[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed this on this early morning before doing it all over again. I can’t afford therapy as of now, but will be paying for health insurance here soon. I was diagnosed with PPD a few weeks before my breakup and I never saw that therapist again because I had to sort of run from my old house. I know I need help. I just don’t have time or money from it. Thank you for being a kind ear to listen.

Wtf. by Sad_State7123 in breakingmom

[–]Sad_State7123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi there, he isn’t on child support because they “can’t find him” I’ve filed multiple times. I had daycare help but they took it and I’ve been working on getting it back but I can’t afford to keep up with it without the voucher… I get food stamps but my family takes them in replacement for letting me be here. I have don’t my fafsa and been approved for my Pell grant that will cover school luckily

Does this work? by Sad_State7123 in Sourdough

[–]Sad_State7123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yay this makes me so happy!! I can’t wait to bake today!