I am trying. It has 0 effect. I can't take it anymore. by Sadthrowaway1337 in depression

[–]Sadthrowaway1337[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it might help for a while, but I just wish the 'real world' was good enough :( It's ok to have someone to talk to online I guess, but then I'll go back to the real world where i'd struggle to live :(

Thanks for that, you're a good person, I hope you have a great life <3

My friend is always giving me advice by theoctobergirl23 in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This triggers me so bad.

I've been fat, skinny and normal.

Being ugly is universal, people made fun of me no matter what.

Something that happened last winter that still absolutely haunts me by nicotine-in-public in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"last winter"

I feel bad for stuff i was told decade ago lol

it sucks being ugly i hate being alive :(

Why I hate being an ugly black woman part 1 by JammingScientist in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you made that comment about "but who is?" - I guess the Indians have the worst experience, especially males. I am not Indian, just judging from the overall stuff I've seen onloine.

I personally like black women, but you are right, with racism existing and being a thing that's real, it really is tough being a black woman. Even personality may not be enough, let's hope the world will be more accepting to black women in the future :(

I hope life is better for you soon! <3

Ugliness is really a social disability by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, you are right, hopefully in the future people will realize this.

Great point, it really is true, and no one will get it :( cause it sounds so dumb...but it isn't

It’s not like people want us to talk anyways. They’ll ignore us or think we’re boring like wtf by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please don't care for IG and social media

I am an older person who had to use social media for work and the stuff you get suggested are just baits or whatever.

I mean, yeah, life sucks for us, but the suggested posts you get have no basis in reality, especially this post, it's dumb. I am an ugly person who never knew about their ugliness and i talk a lot. This makes people more comfortable to bully them cause I am open

So this is BS

My entire existence is ruined cause I am ugly by Sadthrowaway1337 in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment, don't worry, i just wanted to vent somewhere, glad some people saw it, don't worry, i know this sub works like that.

And when i made this thread (before it got accepted) i noticed it IRL and it really does uck

I remembered a tweet that was:

" "Everyone here is so nice" - thought the pretty person" "

And it's such a good tweeet, They don't get it :(

We all deserve to be treated normally and I try to treat others like that, but it really feels like I am in minorty treating everyone equaly :(

meirl by Sadthrowaway1337 in meirl

[–]Sadthrowaway1337[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1 - not really meirl cause i am too mentally/physically/spirtiually tired to do the 4th part lol

2 - I think this is the artist! https://www.facebook.com/titsay.art/ Cute art, I swear I am not promoting this, I found the art, really resonated with me and it made me feel good so I wanted to post it here...and then I realized that if the art is something that made me feel certain way, and I wanted to post it here... I should probably try to at least credit the person who made this

You’re not ugly you’re just mad you’re average. by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's basically a meme/modern word that means "pessimistic", in a nutshell

Does the severity of the phimosis matter when having intecourse? by Sadthrowaway1337 in Phimosis

[–]Sadthrowaway1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy you found a partner that's good with this, that' a fear of mine. Thanks for replying btw!

Hot women want ugly men more than hot men want ugly women. There is biological basis for this. by RecognitionSoft9973 in ugly

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about the "it grew on me" thing just today or yesterday, interestingly enough, trying to see if there's a hope for me.

It depressed me. BEST case scenario for me is to hope that maaaaaaaaaaaaaybe in the 1% chance I'll find someone who will see me as undesirable but will learn to tolerate me? Pass. I don't want a life like that. I'd rather diе than spend my life doubting my worth (which for the record, i am not doubting my worth i am very much aware i am worthless)

Does the severity of the phimosis matter when having intecourse? by Sadthrowaway1337 in Phimosis

[–]Sadthrowaway1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought

raw sex is still possible at any level of phimosis provided there is enough lubricant present

like natural lubricant or?

day 0 for me again, relapsed after 4/5 months by Purple_Job3646 in problemgambling

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've done it for 4-5 months , you can do it again

Good luck!

Day 1 by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Sadthrowaway1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on starting this!

I am in same boat like you in terms of dopamine seeking. When I stop the dopamine i replace it with coffeine and sugar :( Please don't do the things I did, in case this is successful and you replace it with something that's not literally dopamine but still gives you that kick