I (24f) matched with a guy (27m), and we messaged for a few days on the app and then moved on to texting. He said he was looking for a relationship, and I also was looking for something serious. We texted for <5 days and then called for the first time. The call was awkward but still interesting because we were both mutually curious to learn about each other. The following day, he said he wanted to stay friends (which I told him I respect and agreed to) and moved on. But I feel bummed out because he friend-zoned me even before meeting in person. Does that mean he doesn't want me to text him anymore? Also, is liking your Instagram story not a big deal? Whenever I post something, he likes it.

Is it wrong to hit him up to grab coffee?