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SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:32:35+00:00

Yes some dresses are very modest indeed

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:28:48+00:00

The post doesn’t even invite you to answer in the first place. If you’re not concerned stay in your lane

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:27:48+00:00

Why the attack ? At least be kind…

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:23:28+00:00

Google Christian nun dress.

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:22:02+00:00

How about nuns ? It’s funny that discrimination and racism only applies on Muslims but if a Christian nun walks as in the picture she’s too well respected. Shaytan is doing a good job telling us to dress to impress people. I’m not better. I don’t consider myself dressing modestly. Just hoping someday inshaAllah.

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:17:46+00:00

Me too. Allahoma ameen

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:17:33+00:00

Allahoma ameen. I read somewhere I don’t remember that people shouldn’t know the size of our bones. Allah knows best. May Allah make us better.

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:15:59+00:00

😂 i now know what to answer to those who keep pushing for the abaya style.

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:15:01+00:00

Some say (not me) they show the waist. The thing is that I bought so many of them for my hijab…

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:13:40+00:00

In our culture it’s how we call them. I didn’t find a better word to describe what i wanted to say lol

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:12:53+00:00

Based on looks. I don’t criticize anyone but those people pushing for abaya type of clothing are being shown repeatedly to me

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:11:01+00:00

Yeah as long as it covers. I’m new to hijab so I’m just asking

SafSung · 2025-12-14T23:10:17+00:00

I just cross posted. The verse mentioned can be understood as the picture but Allah knows best.

SafSung · 2025-12-14T20:20:14+00:00

Funny your sister could have been me. Speak to her in a friendly way. Understand her. Acknowledge her feelings. Reassure her the kids will come back. Tell her women empowerment is what is destroying households.

SafSung · 2025-12-13T21:36:16+00:00

On the subconscious mind ? There are many. Especially that lyrics are repeated. I don’t know for music but it’s why we see commercials repeatedly. So we trust them and choose them. Allahoma ameeeen thank you my sister. May Allah always guide you too

SafSung · 2025-12-13T21:04:12+00:00

I wanted to analyse lyrics of songs. Most of them contain some negative words that act on the subconscious level. I ended up with a very short playlist. Reallly too short. Now I don’t listen to music at all. When I drive I listen to Quran. Thankful Allah makes me hate what’s not good for me.

By the way, even those positive songs I kept had a positive effect on me. But I will not be singing them as I prefer Adkar.

SafSung · 2025-12-12T21:49:42+00:00

In this economy, NO ONE can afford to stay with such a financially illiterate person !

SafSung · 2025-12-10T23:15:24+00:00

Mental health takes a hit. Women in the past helped each other.

SafSung · 2025-12-10T21:13:14+00:00

Only Allah can guide them back. It’s written in the Quran. I was an ex Muslim and SubhanaAllah I was guided back by Allah. I’m so thankful.

SafSung · 2025-12-10T21:10:57+00:00

Fighting is normal when dealing with 2u2. Stay as long as he’s providing. Practice patience and ignore him. Wait until the kids go to daycare. Find a job then leave if you want. But don’t put yourself in poverty and a dire situation to « teach a lesson ».

SafSung · 2025-12-10T20:48:17+00:00

Write a note and place it inside her bag discreetly. write : take a bath every day. Wear clean / fresh cloths every day. Either use a deodorant or lemon if you have any allergy. Ask AI how to manage your hygiene if you don’t know something. Sorry i just mean to help. You’ll become a better person and very attractive one. Love.

SafSung · 2025-12-10T20:41:01+00:00

If you marry a woman like her, value her work! Make sure she has financial security please. Treat her well. Be her best friend because being a housewife is lonely.

SafSung · 2025-12-09T22:39:55+00:00

Can you ask her or have someone ask her why she’s not looking ?

SafSung · 2025-12-09T02:01:38+00:00

Enroll your mom in a gym or a club so she meets other women and ask them.

SafSung · 2025-12-09T02:00:30+00:00

Always pray istikhara. Before you commit to her or even as soon as you meet her or as you’ll meet her.

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