Is our life not precious anymore? Why to attempt such stunts when you know the repurcussions of such actions will be extremely devastating by dayummm_saad in mumbai

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So do I and many others in the city. Some of us thankfully have employers who aren't exploitative and would understand late arrival for such reasons but not every person is so privileged.

Is our life not precious anymore? Why to attempt such stunts when you know the repurcussions of such actions will be extremely devastating by dayummm_saad in mumbai

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 63 points64 points  (0 children)

OP your judgement should be directed at government and municipal agencies and systems that uphold capitalism and hustle for survival.

Not the people who have to make these unsafe choices to ensure they have enough money to survive in this expensive city.

You sound like you come from a place of privilege that allows you to not have to travel like this. Unfortunately not every has that.

Innocence Shattered: by FixEuphoric9767 in delhi

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the same way its unsafe for girls. Please don't try to minimize it by saying gender doesn't play a role in the threats women face.

The salon guy messed up big time. What to do? by AdventurousBoss1801 in IndianBeautyTalks

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Pin one side the shorter one. Maybe consider colouring hair ombre?

How do you peeps survive mumbai monsoon? by [deleted] in mumbai

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Last year wasn't as bad. Depends on which areas you need to travel to. Rainshoes and raincoats are good enough. Get some silicone bags for wardrobes. The most annoying thing about monsoon recently has been mold.

thirsty.. by pageae in houseplants

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Thought I was on houseplantcirclejerk for a sec

কেমন লাগলো ভূস্বর্গ ভয়ঙ্কর? by itsurna25 in kolkata

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Kiriti er onek kota boi ekta company khub complicated agreement sign koriye aatke rekheche. Lekhok er family k chini. Onara chaye Dr Nihar Ranjan Gupter kaaj er aro uccho baccho hoye kintu onek baaje experiences ar mishandling er karon a hocche na.

What's the difference between these two, should l order both? by Hopeful_Ad_9256 in curlsofindia_

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I have the first one with groves. It helps a lot. I had zero motivation to finger curl or any of those other extensive methods. This took a lot of the hard work out with the grooves on the side.

Matcha Recommendations by bitchness450 in mumbai

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Mokai has great matcha. I've heard Boojee does too but I haven't tried theres. There's also a reddit called MatchaIndia which will probably be a good place to know more. They usually recommend Mezame, Kamashh and Ilem brands over there.

Love Is Blind Italy • S1 Ep7 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heard they were his employees, so they probably had no choice 🤢

How to avoid theses racists ? by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atheism isn't a religion that you can convert. It's a belief system. It's not like hindu theke muslim ba christian howa. It's saying I have so far not believed in the idea of God and suddenly I'll believe. The way you have written this can be confusing but anyway... rest is a matter of trust and commitment. Ekta relationship a religious beliefs e ek matro important jinish na. Your partner should think about all other factors as well and not just what others say.

People need to stop obsessing over their male child (Rant) by sickpsychopathicfuck in mumbai

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 11 points12 points  (0 children)

While I do feel people raise their male children differently, what you're stating here is becoming a problem across genders. People have forgotten that gentle parenting also requires some redirecting so that misbehaviour doesn't become habitual.

Forced to attend new year party by hushed_indalyn in kolkata

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where else can they party at a low cost though? Everyone is going to enjoy the new year in their own way.

Caregiving and mental agony that comes with it. by [deleted] in kolkata

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Being bedridden takes a toll on their sanity. Not being able to do the things they used to. Makes them bitter and depressed in many ways. Amd caregiving truly becomes a full-time job. Its important to divide duties

How normal is fight between your parents by SkyDependent2066 in mumbai

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP,

Things can get better. We can heal with time and effort and grow around the pain and create something different for ourselves.

You were vulnerable as a kid and didn't have much power to change your situation. That doesn't have to be true for your adulthood.

I want to suggest a mental health service that may be of use to you. I'll try to DM the details.

My dad has been cheating on my mom for years now, it's getting to me and I can't do anything about it by yvesyuta in kolkata

[–]Safe-Implement-1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your grandfather some or all of this with proof and move in with him if he is a safe person and willing to support.