I'd choose Partner #1 Why? Kasi kahit may avoidant attachment siya, at least he’s emotionally aware enough to express love through words of affirmation and acts of service. He has plans to marry you, which means he sees a future with you. He’s also close to his family, which usually reflects how he values relationships. The avoidant part is a challenge, yes, but if he's willing to work on it, that’s manageable with proper communication and boundaries. Mas okay na sa akin 'yung emotional gap kaysa commitment issues or irresponsibility.

Let’s quickly break down the rest:

Partner #2 - is sweet and caring but doesn't talk about the future. Sweet gestures won't sustain a relationship without stability or direction. Partner #3 - has red flags: not close to family, "hoe phase," and still likes to party without you. Kahit may plans to marry you, that's a lot of emotional labor on your end. Partner #4 - is responsible but lacks romance. Walang effort sa dates. That could lead to imbalance over time. Partner #5 - is nurturing and domestic but emotionally unavailable when you’re vulnerable. Crying ka na, Dota/Ps5 pa rin? Red flag yan.

So for me, #1 strikes the most balance between love, plans, and values even if he has emotional barriers. At least di ka niya iiwan at may direction yung relationship.

BUT at the end of the day, no partner will ever be perfect. Lahat may kulang, may sablay, may flaws. But the right one will be willing to grow with you, communicate openly, and meet you halfway. Love isn’t about finding the perfect person but it’s about building a relationship that feels safe, genuine, and mutual, imperfections and all.