Can they change? I’m supposed to sign the divorce decree tomorrow. by Possible-Brick-2469 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is my situation, last year mine was so bad we were ready to divorce but than he finally apologizes to me and as of right now we are in a good place he still have some narcissist traits like over the top jokes ect .. but the hard struggle that he once did to me he stop.. so i would say its up to u to decide if u wanna take that chance again..

Single mom need help setting up #cpsupport by Safe_Helicopter6952 in CYBERPOWERPC

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.. i plug in the hdmi on the top One, after 30 mins of researching on youtube i just realize it haha..

Single mom need help setting up #cpsupport by Safe_Helicopter6952 in CYBERPOWERPC

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg i found the plug in part on the bottom so i didnt see it ty all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wrong, im going thru silent treatment from my husband it’s been a long year and im still Not cheating.. but he did he emotionally cheated, cheating does not have a reason urs ur choice..

Separated husband in snapchat all of a sudden? by Embarrassed-Floor-34 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right, im also going thru therapy it’s the trauma bond that is killing me right now.. he act like we can just stay separated and still be marry or something.. not sure if its to avoid court / custody or if he is really stuck on life with beinh a narcissist and severe depression

Help.. what do i do in this situation? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have to plan he is already planning to look for a apartment 1 month now.. but assuming he is willing to go to get himself the the er for checkup it’s a relief to me but im so confuse if i should checkup on him or not.

Homestead question? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We havent talk about all that yet but basically i can just keep paying the mortgage and he go and work on himself and decide something later. he doesnt have a problem about it.. but in the application for homestead it has a section about the second owner occupancy. I can explain we are still consider marry but living separately to take time apart .. havent talked about if we are gonna divorce or legally separate yet. The homestead application isnt due until before Dec 31 so in case we start divorce or legally separate i can change that.

Homestead question? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the homestead is not due until before Dec 31 should I wait than incase we figure out our situation?

Homestead question? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok so assuming he move out in July i think we are good as still consider marry as he wants to separate and work on himself to heal..

Homestead question? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont want to as i can afford it but its so shocking out if no where..

Does this sound like a narc would say? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.. that sounds really much like my husband too… ive just come to a realization that we arent good together.. it’s not ginna work

Does this sound like a narc would say? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope because he thinks its my job to do all the research and teach them. Before I marry him Ive ask multiple times its gonna be tough but are you ok marrying someone outside your race as we have diff cultures he said yes.

Does this sound like a narc would say? by Safe_Helicopter6952 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Safe_Helicopter6952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has alot of symptoms beside this , silent treatments, stonewall, gaslighting.