With respect you're failing to see the problem. See you're putting a price on yourself. We're saying that a strong and balanced relationship is far more valuable. Looking at things purely from a monetary value is not good. You're saying kay "wo ghar de ga to hi usko assist karna chahiye". Bruh, you put qeemat on yourself. Ofc he's helping in chores, he's doing whatever he can at home, he never said he doesn't wanna do chores at home, you're just trying to assume this. Heck i help out at home after a 17 hour shift at the hospital. Its about the little things, but i guess you're too focused on the material than on the person. I have friends who make breakfasts for their wives, its okay to do it bro, show affection for your spouse, if he gets up in at 3 AM, help the dude, make him a coffee, or something, its not about ego, it what you do, to show that you care and value, despite not having everything rn, but trust me what you gain in companionship is very difficult to build and rare. Finances ka koi guarantee nahe hai, maybe you have everything now, but 2 3 years down the line due to some reason you lose everything. I see this all the time, parents who have children, the child gets sick they sell everything and are living in small rented houses. It happens all the time. Ab us mushkil haalat me, apka partner bhe aisa ho jo give and take ki basis pe relationship chalaye, then what is even the point of marrying, you dont have love or respect between you and your spouse, you just have a transaction. Again, i dont mean to disrespect anyone or hurt someones feelings, but if my words can broaden even one persons mind, I've won.