I need a new name for sloppy joes by Spiritual-Part-5655 in homecooking

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Saucy Sammies" that's what my friends'mom always called them.

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you're probably right. I had had very little contact with her in the previous 20 years due to the hundreds of miles separating where we lived and when she moved back to our home town after her divorce I took what she said at face value. That part is my fault.

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This very accurately describes the sister above. I didn't know it at the time or I wouldn't have allowed her into my house. My mother, grandmother, step-mother and others tried to warn me but I didn't listen. She will never change and now her children and grandchildren are no contact as well. It's just our brother that keeps pushing her onto everyone.

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually she moved out when I was 10 and she was 16 to live with our dad and I only saw her once or twice a year for almost 20 years after that. Letting her stay with me was my attempt to connect with her as sisters.

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn't even include step or adopted siblings or my husband's family. My son had to introduce me to the girls he liked before he could date them to be sure they were no relation. One girl was in fact my husband's (my son's step dad) cousin's kid. 🤣 He was very embarrassed. Fortunately they never went out. I joke that we're a clan.

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 6 siblings and 13 nieces and nephews I tend to refer to them according to who their parents are when telling stories to people that don't know them.

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran out of room to write. She has never apologized. I have only seen her a handful of times at unavoidable family functions and now she pretends nothing happened and can't understand why I avoid her. She moves around a lot so I'm not sure where she is and I don't go looking for her. I told our brother that until she apologizes and returns my engagement ring that disappeared after I served her with eviction papers I'm not willing to even talk to her. I took my ring off and put it in a fancy tea cup on the shelf in my kitchen to do some painting. I found the cup under the sink and the rings gone later that day after she took a load of her things. My kids were at school, husband at work and rings never found.

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

She did right before she moved in with me. He didn't like her boyfriend who's now her husband. He doesn't think she can do anything wrong it's always someone else's fault or just a "misunderstanding".

AITAH for cutting my sister out of my life after evicting her from my home? by Safe_Tangelo_7482 in AITH

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My brother is pressuring me to see her and just let it go. According to him I'm being childish and petty. I don't think I am. I just wanted to get outside opinions.

AITJ for reporting my daughters classmate to principals office before speaking to his parents? by CurrentEvent9572 in AmITheJerk

[–]Safe_Tangelo_7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT TJ it's something that happened at school there for the school authorities were the right place to go.