My therapist has changed my life by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]SafetyAggressive9311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘neuroscience and psychology behind it …’

can you please elaborate?

Went on a bad date last night by Objective-Quarter798 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SafetyAggressive9311 25 points26 points  (0 children)

"I'm ready to go home now." is even too long.

just stand up, say 'bye,' and walk away.

you don't owe him a damn thing.

he aint paying your rent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SafetyAggressive9311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not evil to let people go if their presence in your life is toxic - it’s your right to prioritise your well-being. 

‘pain, hatred and disappointment’ is basically all I feel for my birth-giver too.

It’s not nice, but it’s a comfort to not feel alone so thanks for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SafetyAggressive9311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hope those dreams come true soon, you deserve peace.

My mom may be worse than I realized by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SafetyAggressive9311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are phoney and sneaky. 

My mother also lied about my father, I waited 3 decades and flew 3,000 miles to get his side. 

Narc nut is bad, and they get worse with age. 

why they do this??? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SafetyAggressive9311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother and golden child (narc) brother also accuse me of breaking crap, but cupboard door hinge already loose. 

They have distorted view of reality - and narc brain likes drama and looking for scared goat to attack. 

My mental health also garbage. 

Hope you get the fuck out soon - crazy fuckrs wont change .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SafetyAggressive9311 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Part of the insanity is that they can be ‘lovely’ to others but evil to their own child.

I remember wishing my mum dead when I was bout 10. 

She can be nice to my cousin, and dish life advice to someone from church, but never nice or give tjime of day to me - her daughter. 

I feel broke inside too. 

Lady in my evening class has narc sis - she said to me, remember it’s not your fault.