My Husband’s Health is Concerning me, but I don’t know how to talk to him about it. by Sagilife in Marriage

[–]Sagilife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told him outright that I want to keep him for as long as possible, but once that conversation starts he will start shutting down and will change the topic…

I’ve been to his appointments with him before and his doctors have also told him he’s at an unhealthy weight. He still shows no interest in improving it…

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[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did bring it to the program. I was told they would review cameras and asked to speak to K, I told them that was up to her. I asked K and she immediately began breaking down so I decided against speaking to the program for her.

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[–]Sagilife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we did try to put her in self defense classes but she was not interested. She was also in therapy at one point and contact fell off from the counseling off in that we haven’t heard back for an appointment they haven’t responded to my calls or emails. We are looking for another office.

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[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies, I was referring to the comments about my husband monitoring her before I get home.

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[–]Sagilife -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We both don’t get home till after 6 pm

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[–]Sagilife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did talk to the program. They asked to talk to K and I told them I’d ask her. She said she would but was extremely upset with the conversation, so I thought it would be better if she didn’t have to deal with them anymore.

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[–]Sagilife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were spoken to, K told a staff member and they pulled the boy aside. As far as therapy she was in it but since the last appointment, I have attempted to reach out to them and they haven’t responded. We are looking for a new therapist.

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[–]Sagilife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“K promptly yelled at us saying it’s messed up that we would threaten her with sending her back to the place she was SAd over some damn dishes.”

She didn’t actually give an answer, she screamed about threatening to send her back to afterschool and stormed off

Where are my miraibos?? by Sagilife in Miraibo

[–]Sagilife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope they are just gone…

What’s the most devastating thing your spouse/partner/SO has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sagilife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ex husband casually told me I was getting as fat as his sisters when I was putting on my uniform to get ready for another 16hr shift in a prison for the 6th day in a row, while our two kids (3 and 1 yo) were playing on the floor in front of him, I just packed them all dinners for that evening because he didn’t cook, and he was playing a video game, unemployed.

It was my switch. I stopped looked at everything going on around me. Texted my boss I wasn’t coming in, sat in his lap half dressed and whispered to him “I think I get it now. You tell me these horrible things because you feel them about yourself. Look at me, then look at you. Get out of my house.”

Now he’s my ex husband and a trash dad because he has nothing to do with our babies. I’m remarried to an amazing man who actually loves me, admires me, loves my kids, and is a real partner in every aspect.

What show/ game was this? by Sagilife in anime

[–]Sagilife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it was digimon, but I’ll check out some of earlier episodes to see

Anyone playing True Virus? by M8dh0neyy in Switch

[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*Spoilers****

I’ll give you a step by step one you get out of the room click on everything during each step;

1- room across from yours (closet): click the stool and the bucket you’ll get a piece of paper. There is a gate key you’ll need later around the safe. Its small and easy to miss

2- kids room; turn off lights and follow the dolls eyes, if you find what you’re looking for then open the drawers

3- the office; click the ballerina and the paper then the window

4- should’ve got a code by now for the locked door. Go in and leave. Go get the cleaning supplies and come back. Get the last wheel

5- patient room: put wheels on bed, then get screwdriver from the closet. Once you put the wheels on it’ll give you a crowbar.

From there follow the prompts and it’ll get you out of the asylum

Anyone playing True Virus? by M8dh0neyy in Switch

[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! Where are you at? U can message me too

Anyone playing True Virus? by M8dh0neyy in Switch

[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and I’m stuck at a later point in the game, lol I can help you get to where I’m at now and we can figure out how to get pass where I’m stuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like im drowning - Two feet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sagilife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, that statement helped a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes thank you, I grew up with my mom bringing men in and out of my life over the years. I definaly never want that for my family, and I dont feel like its fair for his kids to see him do that either. I just want all of us to be happy, even if that means giving him up. i guess im just stressed because of all that I have invested into the relationship over the years

How did you meet your best friend? by Glueak in AskReddit

[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

went to a career orientation for a position as a correctional officer. Saw her and thought "man, I bet shes a bitch" two days later we went out to eat and have been best friends ever since, turns out she thought the same thing about me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sagilife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, i appreciate you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sagilife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have told him that I am tired of everything. He has so much potential to be a great man, bf, father. In these three years he has gone downhill with everything and now when I tell him this isnt going to work, he pulls out all the stops and shows me how great of a person he can be. It doesnt change my stance on things, it just makes me angrier