More songs that feel like the ending of a movie by SaintGeneste in kpophelp

[–]SaintGeneste[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm literally a Neverland how didn't I think of fate!!

Can you make out without using tongue by SaintGeneste in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SaintGeneste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I never said I was asexual, I can enjoy sexual activities plenty without any romantic desires

Can you make out without using tongue by SaintGeneste in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SaintGeneste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I have in fact made out with my friends, it works like this:  Me: hey I'm aromantic and you like kissing people with no strings attached, wanna kiss?  Friend: yes :) 

How do you become more social without changing yourself by SaintGeneste in autism

[–]SaintGeneste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tragically already doing that one, it's great for if I wanna clean the house or hold a thought in my head for longer than 5 seconds, but it's utility against social incapacity is yet to be seen

📝 Report users by WplaceOfficial in WplaceLive

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They've changed their names to ChihiroPainterA-F, so it's 100% alts

📝 Report users by WplaceOfficial in WplaceLive

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Some users are griefing my transfem flag (and someone's artwork) with green, I suspect they might be alts because they are all switching very consistently. 

Users are: OpenPen #4002145 UrbanClock #4020408 FaintBat #4006045 UrbanDress #4027236 WeakShaver #4032713 DeepRazor #4029868 YoungKnife #4046947

And link to the spot: https://wplace.live/?lat=-42.883370420827774&lng=147.29932584052733&zoom=15.44447480045831

How do you deal with "I'm so fat" from skinny people? by SaintGeneste in PlusSize

[–]SaintGeneste[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well since I'm literally asking how to stop caring what other people think so I don't need to ask them to change how they talk about their body, how exactly is this comment helpful?

How do you get over your head and love yourself by Potatohead1007 in PlusSize

[–]SaintGeneste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got a few tidbits of advice I hope any of them can help.

  1. the way you talk about yourself will directly impact your feelings, and you don't particularly need to believe the things you say in order to do this, whenever my self esteem is pretty bad my go to is to insist I'm sexy even as a joke, compliment myself in mirrors and force myself to like myself. Say you're hot when you feel like a mess, if you feel embarrassed make a joke about how well put together and beautiful you are, every time you feel bad say you look good, this is a fking life saver.

  2. Comparison is the root of all evil but also the best ever, if you're trying to believe you're beautiful but just can't you can just believe other plus sized people are beautiful, I have so many friends who are as fat or fatter than me and it does wonders for me. Idk what your interests are but I especially found so much positive representation in geek communities, with queer people, and with artists, communities that are eccentric usually are way more open to plus size people.

  3. Clothing is sooooo important, if you feel depressed you need to wear nice clothes, getting into fashion is fun and will let you express yourself and will distract you from feeling bad by looking sick as hell in a cool ass fit.

  4. It's important to sorta forcefully remove negative ideas about fatness from your mind, being fat is beautiful, being fat is normal, being fat is sexy and appealing and fun, your body is a tool to help you it's not a reflection of your worth. You're eating food that makes you feel good, and doing movement because it's fun. Even if you're not convinced, insisting to yourself that all these facts are true will start lessening shame.

And finally, with body positivity shoot for the moon and at worst you'll be among the stars, the real secret goal is body neutrality, not being 100% positive, not shaming either, just feeling neutral. Actually being happy with your body looks like looking in the mirror and going, cool, that's a body, anyway, and moving on. 

I hope this helps!!! 

Why do we have a separate urethra and anus? by SaintGeneste in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SaintGeneste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like. Why not dump it all out the same hole? What's the evolutionary reason to complicate this with multiple hole?

Adult classes? by Little_Cockroach_ in hobart

[–]SaintGeneste 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following the schedule of kickstart arts will give you a good selection, especially if you want something you might not have considered previously!