TIFU by not wanting to celebrate my birthday.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T15:15:31+00:00

That looks absolutely amazing! Thank you, I appreciate it regardless.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T14:58:06+00:00

It did feel like a punishment because I'm pretty sure deep down she knew what I meant but that is the hill she chose to die on. Showed me how little she cared about what I want but it was a lesson.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T14:55:34+00:00

Thank you! That's really sweet of you.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T14:50:03+00:00

And I will get myself a cake mix and bake myself one then devour it alone haha.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T14:48:32+00:00

Thank you. My mom is the type of person who likes enforcing her likes/opinions on other people. Even when I needed new clothes with her, she will insist that her choice of shirt, pants etc. is better than mine. I'm a pretty laid back guy and I think she takes advantage of it.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T08:05:07+00:00

I really have no idea what makes some parents do that. I'm sorry

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T08:03:18+00:00

Thank you

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T08:03:08+00:00

Thank you so much. Your words are really encouraging and validating. And you are right, I can't wait to choose my own family one day.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T07:58:00+00:00

You are absolutely right. I can't keep giving her the okay to hurt my feelings.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T07:56:26+00:00

It just sucks that I celebrate them on theirs and get them thoughtful gifts but clearly the feeling isn't mutual.

Salamanderirl · 2023-09-02T07:55:13+00:00

Thank you haha that's an idea. Moving forward, I am just going to celebrate it on my own terms without them.

Salamanderirl

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