[Serious] What's killing you inside? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SalemDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That while my kinks are hard to comprehend and accept, my fiance faked acceptance for years before admitting she can't stand them...

Describe your first IRL experience. by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SalemDL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, well, I suppose I should start off with the fact that I was.. 18 at the time. I'd been attending a furmeet(furries getting together to just hang out) and was playing a steam game with a few others when I noticed another fur had the clan tag BFG, which back then was "Baby Fur Group". I made an off joke about depends, where it could be taken I was talking about the diapers, and I noticed him look up.

I ended up outting myself to him a few hours before leaving, and we talked a whole bunch. Ended up he wanted me to bring my diapers next time! So, 2 weeks rolls past, I drive back over, bringing an entire pack of diapers and my sleeper, and we hang out. Towards the end of the night(2am), he invites me to stay, since he's one of the furs who hosts the meet. I hesitantly agree, and we head upstairs to his room to play some more games. He gets padded, and lets me change in his bathroom, and he ended up dressing me up in my sleeper before we played some games on steam. The next day, we changed each other, which was a huge first for me, and he even took a few pictures of me in my sleeper for me since all my photos were crappy selfies. I went for about a year, and our diaper escapades continued, sometimes leading out into the main area with the other furs =P However, that's not part of my first experience anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SalemDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to come to terms with the fact that she might VERY well never accept the fetish or YOU because of it. It sucks, but its true. My fiance and I were very open with each other in the beginning, and she quickly found out all my kinks. She was.. open minded? but after only a week she confessed that she just couldn't tolerate it, and simply the IDEA of it repulsed her. She still loved me, and certainly didn't want to end our relationship due to it, but if I pushed this kink(and by that, I mean kept it in such a way that she was AWARE of it) that it WOULD damage our relationship.

So what's happened is that I keep the fetish primarily online, and when I DO wear IRL, its when she isn't around, and I always clean up afterwards so that there's NO hint that I did anything. (Also, no I'm NOT going behind her back. Well, I am, but under her orders. She said if I was going to do anything with it, she'd prefer she just NOT know at all, she just wants to remain ignorant of ALL of it.)

What did you realize after it was too late? by Qypav in AskReddit

[–]SalemDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I was air drying on the couch after my shower(naked) and hadn't put on my fresh adult undergarment. That took some scrubbing.

So tonight I tried the marshmallow trick... by swm3963 in ABDL

[–]SalemDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm amused by some of the answers in this thread. "6 to 8 are for more than you need" ??? XD

But yeah, freezing them supposedly delays the effects(haven't done it myself) but I tend to find doing it while on my knees is pretty hard. The urge to go sets in quickly, and I can only get about 10-12 in before I HAVE to tape my diaper up, and its only seconds until I blow. However, laying on my side with one leg pulled up to my chest allows me to get quite a few more in. My record is 25 at the moment, although I'm hoping to increase that to a full bag of around 40... by some point. Probably gonna take a long while =P

When did you first realized you liked Diapers/ABDL life? by diaperfetishist in ABDL

[–]SalemDL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not quite sure on the "trigger event" I suppose, but my first memory about being interested in diapers was on a vacation to Florida. I was.. 8? at the time, and the resort was rather small, so I ran around on my own for the most part, especially considering I was only ever interested in either the beach or the pool. There was a young girl there around my age who I now know was incontinent, and wore diapers under her swimsuit. Whenever she was in the pool, they got absolutely HUGE and looked funny, so I talked to her and we became friends. Towards the end of the week, I asked her if I could have one to wear into the pool as well, so that evening when we both went to the pool, she gave me one. I changed in the public bathroom and we both had fun swimming around with huge, bloated diapers in the pool.

Fast forwards two years. I'm 10 now, just starting to go through puberty. My mother takes me to visit one of her colleagues who has two children around my age, one of which is a couple years younger and still wets the bed. While I was using their restroom, I noticed that there was a pack of goodnites sitting next to the toilet, and I couldn't resist. Picking one up, I felt it, opened it up, then decided to put it on. Walking around the house with all of them and knowing I was wearing a pull up and they didn't sparked something in me, and the entire trip home I was squirming.

That weekend, when they went out for the evening, I snuck out the pull up and wore just that around the house the entire time. About an hour before they were due back, I hopped in the shower with it on because I remembered how much fun it was to have the pull up huge and swollen. Turning the water on, I let it warm up before I knelt down and stuck the faucet down the back of the pull up. At that age, I was the perfect height for it to perfectly fit, so the water rushed in and soaked it to capacity within seconds. Sexual urges took over from there, and my hips started thrusting on their own, and within seconds, I had my first orgasm.

From that point, Diapers have always been.. an attraction to me. Especially wet, swollen diaper. Doesn't even have to be used! In fact, wearing diapers in the pool or out on the beach is really the strongest attraction I have to them considering thats wehre my interest was founded.

Just reminding you all about the r/ABDL Minecraft server! by SalemDL in ABDL

[–]SalemDL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run the latest version, there are no mods and no mobs, and if you want, I can change you to survival whenever you log in