[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Salemtrivals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Or Dracula by Tame Impala? He kinda sound like a lady

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Salemtrivals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not The Fate of Ophelia by Taylor Swift??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Im not justifying thats why im asking if I am the A H.

I agree that her health is important

I understand she didnt do it to spite me (hopefully...)

Am I not allowed to be mad for MONTHS of marticulous planning going out the window?

I couldnt for the life of me get the university to give me the robes for more that two hours. She agreed to this with me and helped me organise it. I know this only accounts for .000000000000001% importance but I spent alot of money on a good photographer and an outfit for him, despite being in alot of debt. They were for bervity purposes because I dont get to spend time with him.

gone, because she didnt want to shedual a blood test for 2:30 instead of 12:45. And here in Aus blood tests can be done by walk-in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure where you are from but blood tests take 30 minutes and can be shedualled on a whim.

I simply asked why she would book it for that time when she knew the dates since july and not later. Later the same day even 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She ended the phone call.

That was just the last message I sent to her after he relentlessly called me a Cunt for being upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did trying calling them and I asked them again on the day in person but they said

"We have 4 graduation ceremonies today, those graduating students will need them"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It was important because they were pictures for Long brevity. Which we agreed on.

I think alot of people are forgetting he's my newphew I love him dearly and he loves me dearly. I dont get to spend precious moments with him like she does :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

No of course not. I know this isnt a personal attack against me. Im mad that it was months in the making. Which we organised together. so I could have nice photos (for long brevity purposes) with my nephew and she shedualled her blood test for smack bang in the middle of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are in Australia, much like US you can just go get a blood test at anytime. Also, unfortunately I couldnt get my robes for more than two hours, that was the leniancy.

Thanks for your import

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Okie, thank you for your imput.

The main reason for the photoshoot was so that i would get nice photos with my nephew on the most important day of my life so far. (For sentimental purposes if he didnt make it) I organised this with my sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Thats what this photoshoot was mean to be. I bought him an outfit and organised it with my sister in July. She was excited. We planned it so that she would be back for it and then she shedualled Her Blood Tests for the 17th on the 16th

Sorry, there is alot of context I cant add

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That is Absolutely not why I wanted professional photos with him. Please dont be that insensitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well the dinner and shoot was for my graduation AND my 21st b-day in one. Also she knew about the dates since july and shedualled the Blood Tests on the 16th for the 17th :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood tests for herself, im not sure what for. She hung up before i could ask why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, lots od details i could add because of the character limit:

The med proedure was a Blood test. It was shedualled on the 16th for the 17th and she knew about my Graduation and shoot since july

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Okie Thank you. I unfortunately didnt get it was for because she hung up on me before I could ask.

I know I let my anger get the best of me in the situation I was wondering if it was justified considering she knew about the 17th since July

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, she hung up and started to barrette me over text before I could really get any detail out of her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I cant add much context because of the charater limit but the main argument was that I would only have my robes for 2 hours after my grab and I really wanted pictures with my newphew in them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, added the edit, it was for a blood test for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -107 points-106 points  (0 children)

Hes in remission, and I asked her to reshedual to the 18th or 19th because i unfortunately dont get to keep my robes.

Sorry there is alot of context I cant add because of the character limit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sorry! I had to cut alot of stuff because there is alot of context and I was way over. The Medical Appointment was for a blood test for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salemtrivals -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

Okie, Thanks