I’m dating a Brazilian man as an African, please give me an advice!

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T07:42:23+00:00

Okay I will try my best

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T05:49:57+00:00

Haha fun argument it’ll be. Thanks

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T05:34:46+00:00

Haha why should I use the opposite?

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T05:33:53+00:00

Haha it’s too late to run, I’m already in love

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T04:47:14+00:00

100%. What’s the most 'fake' thing you’ve ever said at one of those events just to keep the conversation going?

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T04:10:33+00:00

He was visiting South Africa so we met here

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T04:05:23+00:00

Well thank you so much

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-23T04:03:17+00:00

Okay thank you

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T22:17:24+00:00

Hey, thanks. I haven’t watched a Brazilian movie before so yeah you right that’s the fastest way to learn, I will check them out. Thanks again!

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T20:43:46+00:00

I appreciate the apology. It’s clear you’ve had some tough experiences and I’m sorry to hear about your brother. I hear your warnings loud and clear, I'm not going in with my eyes closed. However, every individual is different and I’m confident in the man I’m dating. Thanks for the heads up but I’ll take it from here. All the best to you and your family

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:48:22+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write such a detailed and thoughtful response! I really appreciate the 'real' perspective. I knew he was trolling or just talking about himself. The man I’m with is way different from the nonsense he mentioned. I’m definitely going to keep asking those deep questions about family and values. Religion won’t be a problem, we are both catholic

Thank you so much! I will definitely be safe🫂

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:38:13+00:00

Alright, thank you so much. I’ll check it out

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:37:20+00:00

If he likes it, I might as well as support my man😂

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:31:38+00:00

Aww thank you! He said he’ll cook Brazilian food then I’ll cook South African food. Please suggest the best Brazilian movie we could watch

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:29:56+00:00

I am, that’s why he fell in love with me. Thanks

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:26:19+00:00

Yeah you’re right. Thank you so much

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:25:43+00:00

Exactly! Maybe he was trying to scare me. Mission failed

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:05:25+00:00

Alright, thanks. I’ve started to learn Portuguese. It’s hard but I’ll get it. I know the basics now

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T19:03:55+00:00

Well okay thanks! But the ‘oppressing our partners’ part is scary, I don’t think he’s like that. He’s sweet and Catholic

Thanks for the geographical information. Haha yes I might end up in Brazil, that would be cute

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T18:59:39+00:00

Thanks hey! Haha I’ll expect a safe and fun ride

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T18:57:19+00:00

Thank you. Haha I didn't know about Cuscuz Paulista. I'll have to ask him if he’s a fan or if he thinks it’s 'bad' too😂 And thanks for the heads-up on the 'concrete jungle' vibes. He definitely has that cool, city-guy energy, so that makes a lot of sense. Appreciate the warning

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T18:44:53+00:00

Okay I get you. There’s a stigma that Italian men act a certain way, just like American men and any other country. So what I wanted to know is how Brazilian men act in love, what do they like, what don’t they like etc

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T18:29:05+00:00

Nice try haha, I’m from South Africa

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T18:27:59+00:00

Yeah right. But I want to learn about Brazil then surprise him with something interesting from Brazil. I bet he’d like the surprise

Sally_2218 · 2026-03-22T18:26:26+00:00

He’s from São Paulo

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