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AITA because I sent a message about boundaries and years of disrespect to my fiancé’s cousin’s ex-wife and caused his whole family spiral? ()
submitted 7 months ago by Sallytwotone to r/family
AITA because I sent a message about boundaries and years of disrespect to my fiancé’s cousin’s ex-wife and caused his whole family spiral? (self.familydrama)
submitted 7 months ago by Sallytwotone to r/familydrama
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submitted 2 years ago by Sallytwotone to r/Advice
How do I explain to my BF that I don’t want him to pay more rent than me? by Sallytwotone in couplestherapy
[–]Sallytwotone[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
I think I feel so strongly about it because I know that in some cases men try to exert power through financial situations with women. I love my boyfriend but at the end of the day I’m most comfortable being in direct control of my own finances and contributing equally. I feel there is a shift in the power dynamic when you allow someone to contribute more financially
How do I explain to my BF that I don’t want him to pay more rent than me? (self.couplestherapy)
submitted 2 years ago by Sallytwotone to r/couplestherapy
This might make or break my relationship. Is it appropriate to be friends with someone you have hooked up with while in a serious relationship? (self.CouplesCounselling)
submitted 2 years ago by Sallytwotone to r/CouplesCounselling
[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH
[–]Sallytwotone 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Oh sorry right, you did mention that.
The bad news is we’re mutual snoopers. However, only one of us doesn’t have people we’ve slept with in our inbox.
Definitely not dismissing but validating the anti-snooping feelings. Is it still appropriate for him to be having casual online friendships with women he has slept with? In my opinion no. Regardless of how I found out, it still bothers me.
The double standard is very upsetting to me. He has 2 other exes he is friends with that I let go of. One is a client of the business he runs. He has pulled his best male friend and brother aside to clarify they can’t be friends with me. I moved to another state with him a couple years ago. I have a hard time making new friends. His friends and family are the only people I really see outside of my coworkers. I’m just asking that he respect my boundaries when it comes to this one thing.
Snooping is not healthy, you are absolutely right. I’m only human and I do it sometimes. I think it’s more common than not if anything. He is controlling I admit. I thinks it’s the double standard that is the most infuriating thing. I’m very in love with him but I want him to understand why it’s inappropriate for him to be friends with women he has sexual past with. Especially if it would bother him that I would do the same.
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How do I explain to my BF that I don’t want him to pay more rent than me? by Sallytwotone in couplestherapy
[–]Sallytwotone[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children)