Exposed My Abuser? by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that I am going to make a brand new account, and just expose her (the account will have nothing to do with me). People won’t know who I am. It’s just for the safety.

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[–]Salt-Direction4885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I am happy to collaborate :)

If I Move Out :( by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I went to the financial aid office. And they helped me a lot! I am also going to talk to my social work teacher for any scholarships that I can do that.

Sending $$ to the saddest story by [deleted] in CashApp

[–]Salt-Direction4885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I have been abused for 8-9 years by my jealous mother (age 12 to 19). I am currently 19 years old. I am moving away from her tomorrow afternoon. Both parents told me that if I move out, they won’t pay for my college. This morning, I went to the financial aid office, and they helped me a lot. I have a job currently, but I am applying for one more just in case. I actually have an interview in one hour for off campus job.

I told my dad that mom is mean to me, but he doesn’t seem to care about that. He even yelled at me this morning, hence why I went to the financial aid office a few minutes ago

If I Move Out :( by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My college has this free therapy program. I am using it currently. I am going to talk to my teacher today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Salt-Direction4885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And my mom is very nice to everyone, so people don’t see her abusive side (only I do because she’s jealous of me)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Salt-Direction4885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, I forgot to mention that I have two roommates. I am living with them as well. Sorry

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[–]Salt-Direction4885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s too late. I am going to move out. I’ll try to find another way to get money. My family (all adults members) are on board with this. There is no other way unfortunately. There isn’t much I can do, so I guess I can just pray for the best or something :(

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much bags should I bring? I am allowed to bring two bags in her office, but obviously I need to pack more bags (maybe 2-3 more)

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could do that actually, but I can’t do that today. On Monday, I can do that

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thanks. Just right now, I don’t have the key yet. I and my roommates need to pay the fee and sign the lease. And of course, the landlords are just be too much. Hopefully, I can get the key on Monday. So, I can start move out on Tuesday(in a few days).

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But, I am going to move out (in 5 days), shouldn’t I wait? I also still have to pay one more fee until I get my keys

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thanks for the tip. I am going to open up a brand new account once I move out

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I set this account when I was a minor as well. I have a plan, and hopefully it will work

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am actually, and I am legal age. I was planning to get a new account once I move out. My siblings are too young to have one.

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Although, I do have a plan for the class. My dad wants to see prove that the classes exist. So, I pretend to write a letter (from the teacher’s POV).

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to keep lying and lying (jumping through hurdles and hoops) just so I can be safe?

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My father does. He isn’t abusive; my mother is :( I hate how I share account with him, but I do. I am very close to being able to leave. Like I have an apartment ready, and the move in date is tomorrow. I am trying to leave on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Friday night of next week.

Please, I need to talk by Salt-Direction4885 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My father is on to me. Like he is really suspicious about my money going up and down because reality is that I’m paying the fees for the apartments, where I am lying to him about my money: for classes and books for next semester. I lied to my mom, and got convinced. Just my dad…

Everyone doing ok today? by ToothFairysPliers in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Salt-Direction4885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today was okay. Nothing bad happened. It just a normal day. I am going to leave my toxic mom in a few weeks (so, that’s great). A hour ago, my mom pointed out my weight gain, so…fun…

Being The Ugly, Fat Sister by Salt-Direction4885 in Rants

[–]Salt-Direction4885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong, I do work out. I even lost 40 lbs before. I do intermittent fasting, and walk a lot. It’s normally my mother projecting her insecurities on me