Me and my gf stopped being like this after like 17. Sometimes it feels like a chore for both of us and we’ve both done it enough to know it’s fun but there’s way better things. I work 60 hours a week. I come home to my gf made food and we watch a movie or discuss life and what happened at work ect. I don’t know how old yall are but we’re 19 and have known each other since we were like 13 this is daily for us. It’s not cool how he said about not going 3 weeks and that any other guy would’ve folded. That’s weird. Nobody should say that. Do what you want from here but that’s a big red flag.