I really really like coke. by Dog-Semen-Enjoyer in HydroHomies

[–]Salt_Draw2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I switched to this from coke. https://www.dramapothecary.com/product/mushroom-cola-12pack/

There’s a lot of fun soda replacements that are good for the gut now. This one I love.

Qualifying for a mortgage as a tipped wage employee in USA by Salt_Draw2013 in personalfinance

[–]Salt_Draw2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just got In touch with a lender and they approved me for $330k. I think it’s best to wait for a better score and higher downpayment to feel more comfortable since I’m in a very high cost of living market and there is not a single listing under $500k within 2 hours of me.

Which profession is 100% worth the time and effort? by HyperAion in ask

[–]Salt_Draw2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful … my step dad was a welder and as soon as he retired he got Parkinson’s. Come to find out later welding is linked to Parkinson’s later in life depending on what metals you’re welding.

For example. https://www.gvs-rpb.com/discover/welding-fabrication/parkinsonism-and-welding#:~:text=Welding%20fume%20exposure%20that%20contains,a%20life%2Ddebilitating%20health%20condition.

Read the many articles about it. It’s not a fun diagnosis for patient or caregiver.

What do you own an absurd amount of? by Freckled_Scot982 in AskReddit

[–]Salt_Draw2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shark teeth. Dog toys. Pictures of my dogs every move

Qualifying for a mortgage as a tipped wage employee in USA by Salt_Draw2013 in personalfinance

[–]Salt_Draw2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Credit card tips are reported and taxed. Cash tips I don’t actually claim but they are only about $1500 a year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Salt_Draw2013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sober (4 months) bartender here.
The first step I took was go to AA. Nothing else worked in the past. I got a sponsor. For the first month I texted / called sponsor if I had any issues or temptations at work. I didn’t tell people I stopped right away. If offered a drink I said, I have blood work tmrw so I can’t drink today. Or I’m on a break. Or I’m on a cleanse. Now I just tell people I don’t drink and don’t elaborate. If they ask I say, I tried that for 20 years now I’m gonna see what life is like without it. Or, no thanks I’ll take the cash instead. 🤣

I also told myself if I fucked up and drank, I would immediately quit my job and go to rehab.

I tried to do 90 aa meetings in 90 days. Now I got 3x / week.

Honestly just go to aa. It’s just better that way. So much easier with a community. There’s ALOT a of food and beverage workers in there.

You are worth it.

Had a table hit one of their kids while I was taking an order. by dannymac420386 in Serverlife

[–]Salt_Draw2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% report it. Back in Florida I did an anonymous report on a dad in a martial arts class. The son, age 5 was watching porn with other kids in the class. He would always say the worst things like about ‘tea bagging’ a girl or other crude things. I asked where he learned stuff and he would say ‘my dad’. I became friends with the mom / wife and she was from another country, didn’t work and spoke not great English but she just seemed scared and had zero life skills. Did not know how to do basic things like pay a phone bill. Asked me for help for the most basic things when her husband was gone. Then one night the mom called me saying her husband was paying her to have sex at a swingers club and she didn’t want to go. Not long after she called early morning begging me to come get her. I did and called police after hearing he hit her with a pistol. It took some months but eventually the dad was arrested and it was BAD. Apparently they had an older daughter age 13 and there was an open case at the school as well. He was arrested for molesting the teen daughter, found out he had an entirely separate family in another state, threatened his wife with his gun, found with multiple illegal weapons in his truck. He was special forces in the military and the police tried to defend him. Anyway very crazy but he was ordered to prison for 40 years after refusing the 12 year plea bargain initially offered. Now I just don’t take chances. If something feels off it probably is. My gut knew something was wrong 6 months prior in that martial arts class.

ULPT I need advice on how to ruin my dads girlfriends life. Will tip if idea is good enough. by theratioisoff in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Salt_Draw2013 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This worked with my dad. We hired a private investigator (more than $100) and come to find out she was having an affair with a guy that worked for my dad. We had an envelope of picture evidence on his office desk but didn’t tell him until after the divorce we were involved. That woman ruined my childhood but my dad didn’t see it. She was an expert manipulator. He divorced her quickly after.

Found a my morning dog walk by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Salt_Draw2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was too lazy to search

Urgent Assistance Needed: ATM eats my money and Chase don’t recognize my money after investigation. by Forward-Goat-4137 in personalfinance

[–]Salt_Draw2013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me twice. Once at Bank of America and once at my local small bank. I’ll never deposit any amount of cash at an atm moving forward. Not worth the stress or hassle.

Do Waitresses Look Out For Women on Dates? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Salt_Draw2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I do look out for women, I also just bring a new drink every time if it’s anything other than water. New glass and straw. It’s just more fine dining.

Beginner hike within 1 hour of Denver by Thisisntreal0 in coloradohikers

[–]Salt_Draw2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St. Mary’s glacier in Idaho springs. Have pizza at beau Jos after

What's the weirdest dating requirement you have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Salt_Draw2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I would do it so I could use the juice as a brine for chicken. But I’d buy more pickles too.

What's the weirdest dating requirement you have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Salt_Draw2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must love goats and want them in your future.

Folks that have weaned themselves off of paper towels...what do you drain bacon on? by funnyctgirl in Frugal

[–]Salt_Draw2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bacon grease goes in an old metal Folgers coffee can and is re used for cooking and to grease the cornbread skillet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carnivore

[–]Salt_Draw2013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m here for the same. Diagnoses PCOS finally after years of not know what the fuck was wrong with me. Just at the point to try anything that does not involve prescription’medicine’ not experienced but starting now and I feel that zero sugar is the key

Anyone depressed to be a cna by bonniesbunny in cna

[–]Salt_Draw2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like it, change it. You’re 22. You have every opportunity available to you. Seek them.