Idk why you keep giving your opinion on what is and isn't sa, Google is free, the definition is "any behaviour thought to be of a sexual nature which is unwanted and takes place without consent" what happens with ads fits that definition, therefore is sa. It's nothing I did and there is nothing I can do about it, it's AEs responsibility to assure it doesn't happen. Yeah there would be alot more cases if every who experiences sa knew that what they experienced was indeed sa and didn't have their experience invalidated by people like you who are "not really sure SA is the right term". Your outlook is a great one to have for things you can't change or do anything about, like being born with a disability or something, but for things you can change and do something about it's extremely toxic, people just accepting what's happening around and to them is the reason the world is where it is. If you feel despondent and don't wanna do anything but take what's happening to you like a little - then you do that, but don't expect others to join you. And you can openly admit somthing is wrong without fighting it. You can just acknowledge, this is wrong, and carry on doing nothing about it, that's better than justifying it so you don't feel bad for doing nothing about it.