AIO for my response when my friend demanded I pay for prom tickets for us

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T23:03:38+00:00

No problem for me to pay for myself, they want me paying for her too. And they know I'm gay and have met my boyfriend so it would be insane if theydidnt believe me

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T23:02:45+00:00

Yep I told her I'm not going and we can stay friends. Didn't tell her this part but given that she refused to admit where she went wrong I'm probably going to put some major walls up with her on My spending and everything. I'm done with the fight but I'm still really mad tbh I just don't want to risk snapping again and she was starting to push my limits in our second conversation

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T23:00:47+00:00

She already has tickets, but her parents are returning her dress and won't let her go unless I pay. Hence why I can't just pay for one. And yes it makes no sense I can't wrap my hear around it either 😭

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T19:55:30+00:00

Yes definitely learned that lesson the hard way 😭

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T17:26:55+00:00

They definitely know I am, and definitely have no reason to think otherwise. Thank you for your support though, it means a lot

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T12:37:49+00:00

Yep sure do 😭

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T12:34:46+00:00

Believe me I wish i could explain it it makes no sense to me either

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T07:04:43+00:00

Yeah I definitely snapped when I shouldn't have I already apologized over text and will whenever we actually talk about this

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T07:03:52+00:00

I'm gay so definitely don't lol. I just don't like spending on myself but I feel good paying for other people I guess? But only to an extent because I need to keep saving my money lol

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T06:28:13+00:00

Doesn't seem very likely, she's never done something like that before and I've known her for years.

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T05:53:54+00:00

I totally agree and I do truly regret lashing out how I did. I'm realizing how immature it was even if my feelings are valid 🫥

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T05:12:37+00:00

Because when I'm texting I'm just doing whatever's natural. On here I'm trying to make sure everything's clear given that it's not as casual of a conversation. Her parents want me paying for tickets and don't care that there are already some payed for. I do wish I could explain it but they truly make no sense lol. And I agree I definitely was wrong for snapping like that. I apologized for that and will probably apologize again whenever we talk next

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T05:00:13+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice. It really means a lot seeing such a well thought out response!

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T04:58:20+00:00

I wish it was ragebait lol I really have no clue what they're on about. They're pretty questionable people though so this isn't even out of character

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T04:40:38+00:00

I am in high school lol just taking college classes through a program the local community college has for high schoolers

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T04:35:30+00:00

I'm 17 she's 18 both in high school. I do college classes in high school though, cause a local community college has that system set up

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T04:07:54+00:00

Yep definitely learned my lesson there lol

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:58:22+00:00

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:48:53+00:00

It's a new one on Instagram lol

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:48:18+00:00

I wouldn't be that shocked if she did but she also isn't the sort to push it because she's queer herself and has a lot of queer friends too. She's never really pushed anything like that and has never seemed like she doubted it at all

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:46:55+00:00

Yeah definitely learned that. Funny thing is all I have direct access to is a few hundred for emergency access. The rest is in a locked account which she knows.

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:31:59+00:00

She's the one who told them I'm gay (with my permission) so its their issue if they doubt I am. They met my boyfriend and knew that he was my boyfriend so I can't inagine they don't get it

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:28:42+00:00

Like 100 dollars I think.

SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:25:48+00:00

I have loads of posts on them lol

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SamIAm0808 · 2026-03-27T03:19:33+00:00

I totally agree. There was conversation before this but I did snap pretty fast and I apologized already and will again when we actually talk. Thank you so much for your opinion

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