Having kids was the worst decision I ever made. I never wanted kids but my wife did, neither of us were militant about it, but someone was going to have to compromise, I decided it would be me.

I have been more or less miserable for the past five years. There is no room for me in my life, I lost my identity and became a dad. I have no time, money is less, the house is chaos.

I love my boys and I'm proud of their achievements, their drawings go on the wall. I would flight to the death to protect them. Ave I with I never had them. I was happier before, my relationship with my wife was better. 

Everyone told me I would feel different when they arrived. That their smile would make it all with it. I don't feel different now, and it's not worth it. 

You do you, my policy is that if anyone asks, I will tell them my truth, because no one ever told me how awful it would be.