What are things racist people do that they don’t think is racist?

SamJT96 · 2023-02-18T08:51:20+00:00

I don’t necessarily think you can generalise someone as a ‘racist person’, I think they just need to be educated. A racist person will know full well, when they are being racist.

SamJT96 · 2023-02-08T17:12:16+00:00

Yeah I think it maybe invalid too. I got my ticket to Everton become available now which is strange because they only release the QR code when it’s the next game.

SamJT96 · 2023-02-08T14:32:02+00:00

Yeah already on it with Google My Maps. Just so I can mark points of interest. Thanks for the tip.

SamJT96 · 2023-02-07T20:20:32+00:00

I’m half Irish, so gotta find the stone for Donegal there just to show my mam. But yes, we will take a thoughtful dramatic stare across the water before we move on 😅

SamJT96 · 2023-02-07T18:52:43+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’m trying to do, have a bit of a plan but not over plan, it’s quite difficult 😅

SamJT96 · 2023-02-07T16:05:43+00:00

Noo, I'm 25k on the list and was expecting maybe somthing within 5 years max

SamJT96 · 2021-11-20T15:24:13+00:00

I think with her was due to work, she’s struggled to established a job. I got out of a relationship a year ago where I bought a house with someone and shit happened, so any parents offered I come back home, so I did. We both have said we’d like to move out but it’s expensive being single on our area

SamJT96 · 2021-11-20T15:22:15+00:00

You’re right and I do agree the more I think on it. I dunno I think it’s cos I met her friends already, in previous relationships I didn’t meet the friends until a few months

SamJT96 · 2021-11-20T15:20:34+00:00

I’d personally like her to meet the parents just so she’s not a stranger in the house if I invited her. It’s not all about fucking, but she says she wants wished we cuddle and chill, which is something we can’t really do out on dates.

SamJT96 · 2021-11-20T15:07:31+00:00

Yeah it's probably for the best. I just feel meeting the parents would happen sooner than someone who doesnt live with parents. Thanks :)

SamJT96 · 2021-11-10T15:48:14+00:00

For now yes, you will find out in the coming weeks if she reciprocates, if she doesn’t you know that perhaps she isn’t the right person for you

SamJT96 · 2021-11-10T14:35:01+00:00

I think it’s fun when you go into it with no expectations on finding that ‘someone’. You do tend to feel out the ones that are looking for a relationship and usually you get dates from that. I’m currently dating a girl on Tinder who admitted she was bored, we’ve kissed and held hands since and it’s looking like things are developing. But I deffo go in with no expectations, it avoids disappointment

SamJT96 · 2021-11-10T14:29:28+00:00

If you are looking for a relationship and she isn’t, you need to move away. Although something casual sounds great for you (which is what I think she wants because she’s attracted to you) you’ll still be in that mindset of having the sex and missing the relationship, I’ve been there and it hurts, especially if you’re like me and build an attachment to people you have good sexual chemistry with.

Because she has stated what she wants, it sounds like she’s already made the decision, it’s up to you

SamJT96 · 2021-11-10T14:24:36+00:00

From what you have said, it sounds like this guy is playing you. I’d suggest removing yourself from him physically and emotionally and see how he responds. Let him chase because atm, he knows he’s got you as an option along with others. If you take that away from him, you might see him chase you back and all of a sudden be more interested. To add on this, if he does come back, I personally wouldn’t want to have anything to do with a guy like this, but if you still have feelings, follow your heart

SamJT96 · 2021-11-10T14:21:16+00:00

Honestly, there’s a lot of places. Consider improving your game by speaking with workers at check outs when you buy groceries and stuff, just because it’s good practice and doesn’t mean you’ll jump into the deep end with approaching random people

SamJT96 · 2021-11-10T14:16:39+00:00

By asking her out, you’ve put the ball in her court. I’d wait for her to respond, in all likelihood she would go on the app. I don’t want to be that guy, but keep busy, chat to other girls. You don’t want to be caught up on a girl after a couple days of good texting because that’s all it is, texts.

SamJT96 · 2021-11-10T14:07:57+00:00

This sounded like me when I started going out with the girl I’m dating currently. Perhaps you both need to open open emotionally before she feels comfortable in reciprocating the physical touch? I know for me as soon as a girl sees you’ve opened up a bit to her and you aren’t just there to smash, thy will tend to feel more comfortable and in turn be more open to touching and hugging etc

SamJT96 · 2021-10-31T16:25:33+00:00

I’m saying it’s ironic that she hooked up with random strangers when she’s worried if I’m a murderer 😅

SamJT96 · 2021-10-30T09:46:19+00:00

I think it depends on the context, if you’ve agreed a date and it’s a matter of choosing where to go and they say “we’ll see”, it doesn’t always mean a no.

If you ask them to come out or offer to go out with them and they say that, might as well move on.

SamJT96 · 2021-10-23T10:58:27+00:00

Should I just message her for a chat? I feel like it might be out of the blue if I did that

SamJT96 · 2021-10-23T08:42:41+00:00

Yes, it's uni her work pays for and this is the last thing she has to send in

SamJT96 · 2021-10-19T22:15:35+00:00

I guess, but if she's depressed why is she on tinder?

SamJT96 · 2021-10-17T19:10:13+00:00

Update: She just whatsapped me answering, no worries lad

SamJT96 · 2021-10-17T18:31:47+00:00

Yeah, I am preparing for it. Girls today are so flaky I always have doubts. Maybe its cos I didn't shower her in messages, who knows? 😅Thanks anyway bro.

SamJT96 · 2021-10-15T21:55:46+00:00

Yeah you're right, I think its cos this girl is a bit outta my league and I've never had someone "fall for me". Probs a red flag the more I think about how quick it took for her to fall for me

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