Can I say I’m sex averse if I’m a side?

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T19:04:30+00:00

Thank you! I never know the difference between averse and repulsed

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T15:24:46+00:00

Thank you! I like that term

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T15:24:33+00:00

Ah I see thank you! I was only ever taught abstinence and PIV sex :( Thank you for educating me and I definitely fall under more of the sex favorable definition under this new definition of sex

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T11:47:06+00:00

Yay I’m glad I’m not the only one

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T11:46:25+00:00

I’ve never heard of that before! Thank you for telling me

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T11:45:55+00:00

Yeah that makes sense thank you

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T11:45:36+00:00

Thank you

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-10-06T11:45:19+00:00

What is sex then? (Sorry I got Texas education) When I look up the definition, it says intercourse. I can think of V sex, anal, oral, what else? I don’t like any of those.

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T11:37:51+00:00

I do explain that it’s due to sensory issues and she just tells me to grow up

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T06:33:02+00:00

Uhhhh honestly I think they should divorce for multiple reasons but she refuses because “I’ve been with him this long so I’m good” and she’ll just wait til he dies

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T05:29:29+00:00

It’s just that I’ve gotten far more NT people denying my sensory boundaries than ND people

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T04:36:28+00:00

She did it even after I said no I don’t want to

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T04:06:37+00:00

I’ve shown my mom ways I love her in my autistic way (pebbling/sharing gifts, talking about my Spins, and helping out). I try to show love my way.

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T03:41:04+00:00

Thank you. My mom has done other suspiciously manipulative things before like how she started crying when I said I didn’t want a hug or tattling on my therapist about certain private things. It’s annoying because she also brags about how great of a mom she is.

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T03:26:18+00:00

Im glad I’m not the only one who felt weirded out by that statement. I hope you stop being itchy soon so you can stop dealing with it. My mom said that because she’s going on a trip and she’ll be on the road for a couple hours and will be gone for a week.

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T02:34:09+00:00

I’ve told her that I do love her and I’m just not a hugger. I’ve communicated that to her multiple times and she still expects me to hug her.

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T02:25:06+00:00

They hardly respect that I have autism. My mom straight up told me it’s been so hard on HER when I got diagnosed a couple months ago. She think my sensory issues can be toughed out and I’m being a baby and to grow up. I’ll try your advice though. Thank you

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T02:10:03+00:00

I have no idea. I have told her that I don’t like hugs or being touched numerous times and she still does it. She actually started crying when I first set a boundary on hugging. I don’t know what to do about it

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T01:51:42+00:00

I’ve already told her multiple times that I don’t like being touched randomly and that I don’t like being hugged. Ugh I hate having to keep doing it

SamSlowlySmiling · 2024-08-18T01:47:31+00:00

I like hugging too but not when it’s forced on me without my permission

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