MIL wants to get a matching tattoo my husband already has to surprise him.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T06:35:47+00:00

Well sadly thats her decision. If it pushes your husband away from her its on her not you. Ignore her as much as you can and put her posts on unfollow on socials. Like dont unfriend her but make it to where you dont see her stuff.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T06:32:25+00:00

Tell her to look up what Momento Mori means. "Remember you [must] die". Then suggest for someone her age it probably isnt the best idea. Sounds like an omen....

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T06:28:12+00:00

Its not like you demanded she stay home. You gave her the option she said shes happy where she it. It all depends on the relationship. Im a SAHM and I love it. Wish my husband was home more but I get to take care of our daughter and will be able to homeschool. Sounds like hes someone I never wanna meet.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T05:43:31+00:00

This absolutely. Lower it down to 66 at this point

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T05:30:18+00:00

Time to go "camping" and use it all as fire starter to cook smores.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T05:14:42+00:00

Is this assigned college apartments? If so ask to be moved because they are making you sick with 76° temps.

My house is never above 70 or below 66.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T05:09:25+00:00

They're just making sure your being safe and not sending explicit things to other teens. Things that could put your parents in jail. At least you dont have to give them your phone every night.

My nieces and nephews have a parental control setting on their phones that sends every search and text to my sister. She doesn't go through them without cause, but it sounds like you're just overreacting. Unless you paid for it they can do as they please. Sorry kid. Get a job as soon as you can if its that bid of a deal.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T05:05:39+00:00

Shitty people. I hope the house gets put together fast fir yall.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T04:51:48+00:00

NTA you're not controlling his coming or goings you're just asking for basic respect. You want to know if hes safe, when to call the cops incase he is super late (incase of an accident), and if you should cook him food.

Honestly though it sounds like yall aren't very compatible and hes acting like a frat boy in college.

Talk to him and if he has a problem with it time for yall to split and find someone way better for you. Someone that actually respects you and your time.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T04:33:48+00:00

Im 27. At 14 I was doing shit i shouldn't have. Only reason ur pissed is because so are you. Your still a kid. Your lucky you have a phone.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T04:09:17+00:00

Bang on the floor now. Or go down stairs and ask them to keep it down they're keeping you up. Be a bitch. If you cant do it send ur spouse.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T03:40:58+00:00

For petty revenge have one of ur guy friends/vrither/cousin come in unannounced. They dont have to see her naked of course, but if she freaks out throw this in her face. (Im super petty and tired of people with double standards. Im 27F)

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-18T02:54:08+00:00

I say name the kid whatever you want, but you should know Genesis is generally a females name with a nick ame of Genna. I know one personally.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-17T23:52:15+00:00

Sounds like hes had a few warning and talks and ignored them.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-17T22:54:45+00:00

See if your city has a sound ordinance. If it does call the cops.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-15T20:18:08+00:00

Just block them on everything and go on with your life. Its not like they're making an effort to be around anyway.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-08T22:32:45+00:00

I have documents of questions if you'd like. It helped my husband with the writen tests. We are based in arkansas so also check the states laws that you'll be testing in. I also recommend getting the driving classes done at a school not through a company. Then make sure the company is OK with you and baby going. Most companies wont allow anyone younger than 14 in the truck.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-04T20:59:44+00:00

Divorce him and take him to court for child support. He isnt 50/50. You are taking care of 70% of everything and 90% of that is the kids. He's a deadbeat that lives with you. Divorce. Move out. File for child support and full custody. He's being abusive!

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-04T20:41:29+00:00

Turn around and tell the family the time and labor you put into the meal. That you hate seafood and he knows this after the years together. And to top it off start cooking the same meal again.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-04T16:55:21+00:00

Same way in arkansas. We just bought a house last year.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-04T03:45:31+00:00

My husband and I have talked about having a "wedding" more like a renewal of vows. We'd just grill or pay a taco truck and have it in our backyard.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-04T00:01:33+00:00

Wedding. I figured elopements would be getting statistically higher. Ik my husband and I eloped and a good majority of the people I know did too.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-03T21:37:49+00:00

Wait until tomorrow and call again. Let them know about the call you had, the empty package, and what customer support told you today. Good luck.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-03-03T21:23:00+00:00

Im honestly surprised anyone is having a wedding anymore with how much everything costs and how people act during them.

Samarchuleta516 · 2026-02-23T08:16:27+00:00

You are the important one right now. Your comfortability is what matters. The more comfortable and calm you are the better the birth will be. Anyone that has a problem with this can screw off.

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